There's this girl I've been dating for a month or so, and we both like each other and have been spending lots of time together. However, she barely touches me at all. I'm not talking making out.I mean, like a hand on the shoulder, etc. We'll hold hands, hug, sometimes she'll put her head on my shoulder.that's it. It feels like a high school relationship.
Any ideas why and what should I do about it? I just want to feel physically close to her.
Update: Thanks.could it be due to inexperience? Or maybe it's just her.?
3 months ago
maybe that's just the type of person that she is. maybe you could withdraw how touchy you are so she can see what it feels like [its not a mean thing or anything, just for a few days and see what happens]. I'm not sure why she would be like that. I know when I'm around my boyfriend, I always want to be close to him and cuddle with him and stuff
are you like not a very confident guy? she wants to touch her, obviously. so do it lol. take some initative/ controll. the more you touch her the more comfortable she will become with touching you. and what do you have to lose cept her.?
Oh no, I'm definitely touching her a lot....i figured she'd be comfortable by now, it's just not happening yet and was wondering. no trust me, I've been very affectionate without being obnoxious about it. thanks for the advice. - 3 months ago
I mean it could just be the type of person she is but. If you are truly into someone there's nothing that will keep you from touching or having an intimate moment with that person!
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When: 3 months ago
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