So the big universal line which is all to well known by most people - It's not you it's me.So I met this girl, to which at the start I did not pay attention that much. Sure I liked her, but I was not really into dating at the time. But after some time I gave in. Mainly because she did not give up either, enough clear hint which made it clear to everybody who heard it. The day I called her it went pretty fast, and I mean really fast. We talked on the phone first then some text messages. Then some more MSN, and she even introduced herself as my girlfriend. Sending text messages during her lunchbreak, when she got home. So I asked her out on a date, went to get something to eat, then catching a movie. But never got to the movie since both of use were tired from work. So I dropped her off at home, thanked me for a great evening. AND the big day after, I see her at work talk to her a bit when I get the chance. After work I get home, few hours later I get a text message saying, "you are very nice to me, but something is keeping me back. I am not sure if I am ready to start a long term relationship. "Saying she thinks I am really nice, and she could not wish for anybody better. She wants to stay friends and hang out. Learn to get know each other better and see what comes. "So with is this, the it's not you, it's me line usually points to a dump line to avoid making to the other person feel bad. Things evolved very fast in 5 days and it all somewhat ended on the 6th day. Tell me what I should think of this because I have no idea anymore.
I'm sure she was just scared and things were moving too fast for her. Give it a little time and give her the space she needs. She said she still wanted to hang out and to see what happens from there. She gave you a little hope there so don't take it as the "Oh, it's not you, it's me" line. You don't want to be in a relationship where one of you isn't 100% sure they want it. Like I said, give it time and see what happens.
Well maybe she got scared. Maybe she figured something out about you that she didn't know before and she didn't like it so she backed off. I have no idea how your date went but maybe she thought something you did was kind of creepy and decided that that's not what she wants. Also a lot of it depends on her age. The younger she is the more she is going to trip about stupid shit. I really doubt that it was your fault though...because she seems like she was coming on to you really fast...and you kind of just went with the flow...you know? Well good luck with this. I hope she gets some sense into her and thinks before she gets into anything.
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