So I really liked this guy and he finally asked me out a month ago. We dated and when we tried to have sex, he couldn't do it. This happened again a few days later. Now he won't call/text me at all. I understand that it's embarrassing and all, but why do I have to be punished? I never said anything to hurt his feelings and I called after the second time to make sure everything was okay. What should I do now, I haven't heard from him in a week... :(
Give him time and space. He is probably pretty embarrassed. You can also try setting up a romantic date & if it happens again (or doesn't happen), & that is very likely because he is now got tons of pressure on his shoulders, don't ignore the issue, that can actually seem like you are embarrassed for him & make things worse.
Let him know this happens & that you are flattered that he is so nervous to make you happy, but that you will take it slow, .. work on each other till things work themselves out, even it that takes all night, & the next day (one can only hope).
You are at a dinner with her, have just walked into an interview or are at a first date with the best looking guy and there, your top two shirt buttons have snapped, or the pants you were wearing...
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