Would you consider this cheating & how can I address this with out hinting that I went through his phone? Recently I found some text messages in my boyfriend's phone to some female. The text messages did not seem to even hint to the female that he is involved with a child on the way. The first text message was sent by the female as an introduction and that a mutual friend of there's gave her my boyfriends #. The next couple of text messages were from him responding to her text messages. He erases what her response was but it seem to me from what he was hinting to her that he was interested in meeting her. Now I know I was wrong. But I sent her a text message from his phone saying lose my #. I am guessing she asked him about that because she called him the next day and then he put his phone on a code lock. And I realized that he called her again later on that night. So while he went to sleep I snuck his phone and called her and asked who she was, because I notice her # in my phone. She told me and she told me that she had talked to him. I asked if he mentioned that he has a fiance and a child on the way. She told me that they didn't get that far in the conversation and no she didn't know that. What makes matters worse is that the female is in New Jersey and she is supposed to be coming down here and a mutual friend of there's gave her my boyfriends number. She reassured me that she would stop communicating with him. How should I address this?
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me again. he's been acting weird & I know he lies to me about most things & talking to his ex who he cheated on me...
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