My boyfriend and I are in love. But he likes to have a lot of his "alone time." Just hanging out at home, he is the type of person that needs more space then others. I, on the other hand like to see him all the time. He is the type of person, that if he is with someone (anyone) all the time he gets easily irritated. He has been snapping on me lately with what ever it is I say.
He told me that now he wants to go on a 2 week break. Just to think about what he has cause he feels he's taking me for granted and wants to get that spark back. I am fine with giving him a break. But it's making me sick wondering what the outcome will be. He says it will probably be fine, that is the plan for us to fix things. But how can I be certain? Is this normal?
I don't think you're being fair to yourself. If you want a relationship in which you can be around your man all the time, how can this guy be the right one for you? How can he meet your needs? Even if he decides that it's okay for you to be around, you're still in an undesirable situation. And it'll only get worse. I think you should take some time to figure out what this will look like down the road and how you'll feel with a distant boyfriend with whom you can't share your thoughts and feelings whenever you want. Doesn't sound like a good deal to me.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
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