Imagine this scenario. Guy has a favorite pub he goes to twice a month. In September a hot girl catches his eye. She's with a guy, though, so he leaves it alone. Two weeks later he is back at the pub, sees the same hot girl, this time with a new guy.
Hmm...he's thinking she lost her prior guy and just started dating someone else. Might be some room here, might be a chance. He comes back two weeks later and she's got another guy. Hmm...that girl has a lot of guys. Two weeks pass and she now has another guy. Guess what, she doesn't look so good anymore. While the scenario is a little goofy, the point is that guys are not often attracted to women they know are promiscuous. What we do is pretend that hot girls will, because they can, be very selective in their dating and will have only been in relationships with good guys. We're one of those good guys so it's okay to have sex with us. But if that illusion is shattered, then, like sexwiseman said, good luck keeping the relationship going.
Having dignity, being picky, and caring about yourself are attractive traits.
sexwiseman
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
Believe it or not, at the end of the day, no guy wants to be with a girl that slept with the whole neighborhood. Isn't that hypocritical of us guys? We want to screw every attractive girl we see, yet when committing to a relationship, we want the purest girl out there! So to answer your question, I would love to have a girlfriend that tells me 'yes, I'm still a virgin.' Unfortunately, last time I checked, it is a crime in the usa to marry 14 year old girls. :))))
Now, guys will tell you anything to get laid. If you're a virgin, since they are trying to get in your pants, they will say, 'oh my god, how can you still be a virgin, what's wrong with you..." However, if they are trying to determine if you're marriage material, they will try to find out...'so how many guys have you done, " and if the number is too high according to their standards, good luck!