Do most older women prefer younger men? Women, be truthful.

The truth is that women can be attracted to younger men. I am sometimes. Anyone younger than 30 for a 47 year old puts the man in the "he could be my child" category and that is a big turnoff.

That's a little strange to me. I'm in my mid-late 30's and that's a bit of a stretch. I think up to 15 years difference on either end is tolerable. I've been interested in guys up to 12 years my junior. Anything younger than 25 would be weird for me. But that's me.

I am not sure that we prefer younger men, as much as at times we are pursued by younger men, and as a younger man you have so much more to offer than an older man, in terms of being young, playful, full of energy and eager to please in bed. Older men have lost their sense of play, are a bore, and for the most part not really interested in pleasing a woman. I never thought that I would date an younger man, but one pursued me for a year, and I gave in, and I have to admit, that it has been absolutely one of the most beautiful relationships that I have ever had the pleasure of experiencing. I am 12 1/2 years older than he is, and he has made me feel things, and experience things that I never knew that I could. Although the relationships is ending, as he is younger, he 28, and I 39 soon to be 40, I love him dearly, and would give anything to keep him in my life. He is more interested in playing right now, spreading his wings an finding a more age appropriate companion, and I encourage him to do so, and find his happiness, but I will certainly be losing mine. I don't consider myself a cougar, because I didn't seek him out, nor would I seek anyone out based solely on age, but I am glad that I gave him an opportunity to show me what he so badly wanted to show me. He was beautiful. It was beautiful. I don't think that I would ever do it again, because I don't want to get hurt, but guys if you are seeking out an older woman, let her know from the beginning what you want. She will tell you is she can or cannot accommodate. It is that simple with an older woman. We are not all caught up with the drama, the insecurities and sex games that a lot of younger woman play. We don't need the roses or the chocolate covered strawberries. We have already had the house, the picket fence, 2 kids and the dog. There comes a time in our lives, when just being able to really enjoy the moment, laugh and have a great time with someone, means a whole lot more than all of the material, performance superficial tokens of love and sacrifice that younger women sometimes demand. We don't need a valentine's day card, chocolates and dinner. Just hold us close, whisper in our ear how much you enjoy our body, take charge, pull our hair and kiss us like there are no other lips on earth and we will return every pleasure, entertain your fantasies, and stop at almost nothing to look in your eyes and see nothing else but delirious delight.

Cause at that age women are in their sexual prime. As you know, men aren't. So they go for younger guys that are more their speed.

No, there are just a few women who still want to re-live their younger years.

Ummm...what I know is that only crazy women in that age think like that...I don't know what the big deal is with them but Good news: most of them don't!