Just friends or is there more then what meets the eye

Do you think maybe he needs to see what things would be like if you were no longer around for a while.? To see you moving fowards and leaving him behind?. I think he's being genuwine when he says he has a lot going on in his life. don't we all now a days. I don't think that you guys should sleep together. only because you want to see what you mean to him. now if all he wants is to sleep with you. then he would leave you if he wasnt getting it from you. now its kind of harsh. but you don't want someone there whos only wanting to sleep with you. and to continue to love him. and want him. its going to drive you bonkers! And lets say this continues between the two of you. (the sleeping together) You may only be hurting yourself. waisting time. you could be on ur way to recovery by finding out if that's all he wants. or you can continue to sleep with him. invest more time. more emotion. and get very badly hurt. This is a question I should post to ask. and I am going to now that I think of it. lol. in anyones opinion under certian circumstances is it better to walk away from someone that you love.?
Im going to post that for you and for myself. we can follow up on that and get others opinions. I just don't want to hear about it getting too deep in where you are going to drive yourself nuts trying to get back out. it would be much more painful for you!

IIts been about a month since you wrote this. I don't know what else is going on since then. but if you still feel the same way. I think you should talk to him. tell hin how you feel. you guys have already dated so you already have the comfort level. and have already had somethin between the two of you. he hasn't even attempted to move on yet from what you have said. a. he doesn't want a relationship at all. or b. maybe wants to take it slow with you. usually when a break up happends you don't want to be friends. he's holding on to somethin in my opinion. and I personally think its something good! The part about him talking to you right in the morning and before he goes to bed. tells me that when he gets up you are what he's thinking about. when he goes to sleep you are what he's thinking about. he probably can't get you out of his head! even if he wanted tooo! I think its a great sign. my ex keeps popping up here and there like at my workplace and what not. and the one thing that I think about is. 'well at least he's thinking about me before he walks into those doors' now we don't talk anymore so I think of it as he could be thinking good or bad. doesn't matter. he's still thinking of me. lol. but if this man is calling you. he's thinking about you. and its not bad! I hope all goes well. let me know what's happened since. seeing as its been almost a month since you have written this! Best of luck!