Let me ask something Guys & Girls, If you were in a serious relationship and all of a sudden your better half starts having doubts & wants to break up but remain friends, Would You:.... A: fight for your relationship even if the other person thinks that in the future the two will break up? B: Say screw it and end it? Or C: Try and convince them that they're making a mistake to want to break up now do to something that may or may never happen? (Keep in mind that you 2 haven't had any major arguments)
It really depends on why he's having doubts... I would try and find out exactly why he wants to break up (you deserve to know at least), if its about something you both agree needs to be worked on then fight for your man and show him that you think its worth fighting for to be together. It may just make him realize your worth staying for.
Then again, if its a personal issue with himself, such as he's afraid to eventually marry the only girl he's ever been with, then let him go and f*** around and see whats most important to himself. I know its hard but if you love someone then let them live their own life, they'll appreciate it more and they may even come to their senses and come back to you.
Whatever you decide try to be mature about it, don't be angry or bitter, try to understand where they're coming from and accept it. If you act like an ass/bitch its only going to make things worse between you to and ruin any chances of staying together.
Ok ladies I wanna know why when your relationship is pretty much down the drain and us guys tell the girl that I think its time we go our separate...
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