So there is this guy that I met almost 3 years ago and when we first met we really hit it off. We went out but it was long distance and wasn't working out that way. But ever since we broke up he never talks to me. He might call once in a while and we talk and he seems really into me bu then we won't talk for another couple months. He lives like an hour away and sometimes me and my mom go to visit him and his family [[our parents are really good friends]] we spend the night when we do this. And he won't talk to me all night then since I sleep in the living room he will stay up and watch tv and eventually we will do stuff like makeout.
But then the next morning he won't talk to me again. This has only happened like 4 times but I can't bring myself to say no to him. I'm afraid it will go too far one time. He has already asked to have sex but I told him no. This is really hard because I still like him, maybe love. I don't know. I have tried to forget about him but it doesn't work. I need to know what is going on. Does he have any interest? WHAT SHOULD I DO??
Let him go... if he's interested in you obviously the interest is not strong enough for the distance, it honestly sounds more like he's using you because he knows you still care about him... I would just tell him no the next time he tries to get physical. I know its hard but he honestly doesn't even respect you if he won't speak to you afterwards... I would also stop talking to him for a while too, it will help you get over him and help you sever your friendship for a while if needed... if he really cared about you as much as you care about him he wouldn't be treating you this way.
I have asked this before, but didn't get anyone's answer. I'm really trying to deal with this problem and need someone's advice. So I don't show him...
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hey. anyway I have this boyfriend and there's this one girl that I don't like at all cause she makes fun of my friends anyway she practically flirts...
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