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Can I file police charges against my mother?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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She told me I was a worthless piece of **** everyday. I had an eating disorder for 6 years, she was angry at me for embarrasing her and would not take me to a doctor. My father tolerates her beahvior because he always chooses my mother over me. I want both of them in jail but no one believes me when I tell them my parents were abusive, every one thinks I'm lying. I think the only way she can repay me for all the hate she fed me, the only justice that would fit her crime is death. I believe that if God ruled the court systems she would be sentenced to life in prison and then death.


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virginpirate
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virginpirate      When: More than a year ago
I'd say divorce your parents but since you're no longer underage it won't work.

Move on and find a good guy that will love you, or lose yourself and have revenge its your choice.

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Bloodbath
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Bloodbath      When: More than a year ago
Leave the house and never speak to her again.
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girlsloveboys
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girlsloveboys      When: More than a year ago
if you 18 years old I suggest you get a full time job, save up and move out! I wouldn't tolerate getting treated like shit and abused, I would assume the same for you. I'm sorry this happened to you no one deserves to get treated like this. If you want them in jail, talk to someone about it first
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coolguy93939
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coolguy93939      When: More than a year ago
why would you
wanna file
police charges?


if your thinking
of suing them
or something
well. your gonna
have to get money
for lawyers and
court fees and a
bunch of other crap

"I believe that if God
ruled the court systems
she would be sentenced
to life in prison and then
death." ? uhh are you serious?
either they really messed
with you or your just insane.

whatever happen to
honor your mother
and father? don't you think
that if God said honor
your mother and father
he would like it
if you stuck them in jail?

if they were really bad
parents, when their
judgment day comes
its in Gods hands
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AOgixxer750
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AOgixxer750      When: More than a year ago
seeing that your 18 or older, the best thing for you to do is get your stuff and get out. unless you have any proof of abuse, ie pictures, notes or something of that nature I don't know how affective charging them will be without any evidence. best thing for you to do is get out now before it gets worse. move to a friends for abit, try to get your own place, just get yourself out of that situation. good luck
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when-the-rain-fall
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when-the-rain-fall      When: More than a year ago
I was in the same situation.I was actually adopted. She was extremely paranoid and I believe that she suffers with mental issues. Her ex husband was an ex-soldier and tried to kill her. She could never have babies because she had miscarriage from the shock when he shoved shotgun in her mouth. She was mentally and physically abusive. She kept me inside the house and didn't let me go anywhere or to have friends. When she got mad, she was verbally abusive and she got a hold of my hair and punched me on the head or bang my head against the doors and walls. I was discouraged to have any kinds of opinions against her. I eventually started to cut myself from the depression.

I ran away when I was 17. I came back 4 days later but she kicked me out of the house. My best friend's parents took me in and I lived with them. When I went to pick my things up, everything was out jammed in trash bags. We went to the court so that they could get my guardianship. I told them my story, but they didn't do anything against them.

It's sad to say, but running away from home was the best thing I ever did. When I got out, I was EXTREMELY sheltered and I was clueless of the real world outside of my adoptive parent's home. But I learned a lot in 5 years. I'm on my own, going to school with full ride scholarship, and I'm happy. Because of what happened, I think it made me to be a strong person. I still hold grudge though. She's a person that I could never forgive.

I hope for the best for you. If you're unhappy, I do suggest that you get the hell out. File charges. But they're they going to do anything about it unless you have a proof.
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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: More than a year ago
I'm a mom and I am sorry this happened to you. You have an eating disorder and that must be tough to deal with. Are you saying that you have the disorder because of your family situation? If you have insurance maybe you can get some much needed counseling to deal with the eating disorder and your parents behavior (coping tactics).

As far as for jail is concerned. I don't know how that is going to happen, I am not discouraging you against filing charges so maybe you should consult with a civil attorney who will give you a free consultation. If they believe in your case ask them to represent you on contingency. If you have a good case, then they may be willing to charge you after the case is decided. If they tell you about money only, then find another attorney that will believe in your case. Then you can ask about a criminal case. So that is the information that I have to offer you without prejudice.

My final thoughts are that if you have yourself together, and can finacially support yourself without your parents help, then maybe you can live on your own. I suggest that you do not attempt to do this until your eating disorder is under control and your therapist feels it's time and not a second before. You could be risking your life and that's my concern.

You are not worthless and you have a lot to offer to the world so listen to some Mariah Carey and find out about yourself. I like 'fly like a bird' it always makes me feel better. You can message me if you need to talk offline. You're not crazy, but just in pain. Feel better and have a good Thanksgiving. You can be thankful that you are smart enough to know that you are not worthless.
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ladygothicka
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ladygothicka      When: More than a year ago
I think that your mother has committed emotional abuse, and you can file charges against her for emotional abuse. However, you would need solid evidence that she has been abusing you for at least three years. I would strongly advise against her death, since even though you hate her you would miss her if she died.

So, yes you can file charges, but she would not get a life sentence for emotional abuse.
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sheluvshim44
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sheluvshim44      When: More than a year ago
dont waste the time. leave the house. don't talk to her nothing. I would completely disconnect her from your life. nobody needs to be treated like that. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. I would keep small contact with your father. but not much. just let him know your still alive every once in a while.
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