If You Want Your Long Time Best Friend And He Is In Another State

As the mother advised, don't waste this Christmas trip. Better sit down and discuss your feelings with him, and if you both are mutually attracted to each other, then maybe find a way to move to CA. I did the long term relationship before and is not easy. In my case what made it successful was that I finally said I would move, and I did. But if you just go about thinking---oh, this will go on forever, him being in CA and you in IN, then don't waste time in a long term relationship.

You need to address this issue because if you don't then you will be sitting around there thinking..."WHAT IF" So get it over with, find out what the possibilities are, and move on either way. And if things don't go your way, at least you can say, "I tried, but it wasn't meant to be.."