about 2 years ago I was going out with this girl then we broke it off then I started up with another girl. well the first weekend we were tohether the other girl was calling me on my cellphone but I wouldent answer it, well I finnaly answered it it was the other girl and I was trying to be sneaky I guess. well she asked what I was up to I told her , you know what I'm doing meant I was just out doing stuff . so the other girl thought I denied her as my girlfriend and never got over that aspect. so we had conflict right from the get go and never had peace well we fought a lot and she kick me out of the house and one time I thought we were through so I slept with the other girl she found out. and my problem is I could never explain myself,. well I ended up going to prison and now like two years later we hooked back up, well in the mean time I couldent find the girlfriend the one I really love. but the chick I cheated with found me on myspace and I put her on my friend list she already has a boyfriend and I seen her like once, but diddent sleep with her because I think she's gross now. and so me and the girlfriend hooked back up again finnaly after almost 8 months I found out that she had my home number for like two months, but were trying to be lovers again but she keeps bringing up the past and ask`s why would I even still talk to the chick after all that happned and I can't come up with an answer I can't seem to come up with one other than I diddent want to hurt her feelings since I've totaly blew off the ex and now I want to be with the recent girl so much but I can tell she wants clouser on the matter I don't wanna talk or argue about it I tell actions speak louder than words but she keeps telling me I don't love her and if I loved her half as much as she loves me and stuff like that so I'm confused and need help! what do I do?
Well you did cheat on her so there are going to be consequences. one thing that is huge that you could do, is in front of her so she can see you could do a number of things. you could ring the other girl and say that you feel its best that you have no contact anymore, another too is to delete her account off myspace and emails phone numbers etc, all in front of her, I think you will find that will show you this means a lot to you. best of luck.
Thanx for the advice, I have been trying to go slow and I totaly deleted that myspace I don't talk to the ex in any way shape or form were so far gone with each other and I have no desire to see or talk to her .but tonight sammi the girl I love started up with all that past stuff and she booted me tonight at 4 am after I fixed her car worked all day on it went to the junkyard then worked till like midnight on it and when I got back in the house she was pissed at me.. go figure? but yea thanx a - 11 months ago
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