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How do I get him back?

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lovelovelove3 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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My boyfriends just broke up with me, three days ago. I found out he hung out with another girl who he is now dating two days before that. He told me he still wants to be friends, but won't talk to me. I can't do anything but cry and throw up. How can I make him want me back?


Update: he talked to me today. and I asked if there is a chance we'll get back together, and he said he'd talk to me this saturday. because we're going to a dance together. am I wrong for thinking there is hope?    11 months ago

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Arfoo
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Arfoo      When: 10 months ago
I don't think you should pursue this guy since he just. found another girl and dumped you for her.

But eh, it's highschool isn't it? Give it a shot.

If you want him back, talk to multiple guys; make them chase you. Stop dressing like a slut.Don't dress sexy, instead.dress beautifully. I'll leave it up to you to decide what that means

In my opinion, beauty is much more attractive than sexuality
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: 11 months ago
if he's in another relationship there's no way to get him back anymore.it means that his heart has changed.i'm sorry
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breezzy33
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breezzy33      When: 11 months ago
The best way to go about this if it were me, is to move on. If you keep trying to get back with him it will just push him away. I went threw the same situation but I was on the guy end I broke up with her. She tried almost every thing to get me back. I didn’t realize what I had till she gave up on me. Then I was the one trying to win her back. Our relationship was ruined because we went too far. Just remember there are lots of great guys out there that can love you for who you are. Don’t try to be someone your not. Good luck
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nicholai21
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nicholai21      When: 11 months ago
i would not try he does not seem like a guy you want if he dumps you and has another girls lined up immedietly
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coolguy93939
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coolguy93939      When: 11 months ago
why would
you want him
back? he broke
up with you
and was already
with another girl

he obviously doesnt
care
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Answerer Hope? he left
you for another
girl and you
still want hope? - 11 months ago
 

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993099142
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993099142      When: 10 months ago
Flirt with guys but don't date him... let him know that you won't always be available.
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
The is a chance to get him back, but you have to go about it the right way.

1. Tell him you need time to heal and cut off ALL contact with him for 4 weeks or more (don't return any calls or messages from him).
2. Buy new clothes, do new things, go out with friends, enjoy life.
3. After a month, call him and ask him for a short get together, something casual like coffee.
4. Just have fun with him, don't talk about the break up or about getting back together.
5. After he has had some time you miss you, and sees now that you are fun to be around bring up getting back together. Although he might bring it up first.
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lildessie3
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lildessie3      When: 11 months ago
hunn he doesn't want to be with you. he doesn't treat you with the respect you deserve anyway. I'm going through a hard time too with my ex.let go off this "little boy" he doesn't know a thing about love or anything like that you deserve better doent chase him I MADE THAT MISTAKEit will only make him run.just take it easy and tell him " I'm not going to chase you anymore" so I'm done.do it or you'll get more hurt than you were in the first place
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