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Do you have a "perfect" relationship?

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xbeautifulx (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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How do you get along with your partner? Do you fight a lot? live together? Are yall always getting along.and how do you feel about them? What's so special that you see and no one else does? Just curious.thanks


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KERMlT
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KERMlT      When: 11 months ago
I have only argued with one ex. I haven't lived with an ex yet so problems with money and sharing bills/utilities hasn't come up. That's what most people fight about. I do have one person that I feel is "perfect" for me. I like her quirks and flaws as well as all her good qualities. We think the same way and don't have to spend much time at all trying to interpret what the other is trying to say. We have a bit of code words that have a special meaning and they are pretty normal sounding to where we can say something in a conversation with friends and only she can pick it up.

I can't say that someone else doesn't see something special in her but not to the extent I do. From a little kid I started dating and remembering only the good things I liked about the person or the relationship. I never had a checklist where this ideal person had to have them all or that's it. She has just about everything I could ever look for in a woman.

We are connected on a mental, emotional, and spiritual level. She is my soul mate. Everyone could have a soul mate, in fact, there could be many soul mates though some aren't very healthy to be in a relationship with. Just don't settle for the first person you meet because you might miss out on what's out there.
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Simple-Simonette
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Simple-Simonette      When: 11 months ago
It depends on the time of the month, the weather, outside influences at the time, stress levels, PMS, and ovulation on how well we get along.
We have the perfect relationship because we don't expect perfection from each other. We know that there will be times when we aren't going to like each other very much; there will also be times when we can't get enough of each other. We still have 4 hour conversations about nothing and I can tell him anything - even when it hurts his feelings.
I've hated my husband, loved him to death, been indifferent, proud and ashamed of him. He is the only person who knows every crevice of my mind and my body - sometimes I think he knows me better than myself. I know I know him better than himself. I never have to lie to him and he lies to me all the time to make me feel better. I trust him with my life and he pays me the same honor. We fight when I feel like arguing, and we don't when I can tell he just needs me to agree with him.
My husband is the man I chose to spend the rest of my life with - so I will. He never makes me happy, because it's my job to make me happy. But when I'm sad he helps me feel better. I love him more than I can bear at times, because I have been blessed with someone who loves me for being exactly who I am. With him I am free.
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beddafigghia
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beddafigghia      When: 11 months ago
I dated a guy for 2 years. We ended it but still talk every day. We know that we will be together again some day and probably for the rest of our lives. We fight, but the fights never go past the phone conversation or meeting. we always resolve things right away. What do I see in him? I think it's the fact that he cares about me so much more than anyone ever has before, and vice versa.
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3cheersfor5yrs
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3cheersfor5yrs      When: 11 months ago
me and my guy absolutely do not have a perfect relationship. we fight over stupid things a lot. to summarize it, he says stupid shit when he's mad that ends up hurting me. so out of my hurt, I say something stupid back to him, and he hangs up on me. I get scared of losing him, and I call him back crying. usually after an hour or more he realizes there was nothing for him to be mad about, that he overreacted, and he tells me "i'm sorry baby. please stop crying."
that usually happens weekly.
we almost never fight when we're actually together, though. we're just young and stupid and we get so irritated that we can't see each other as much as we'd like, and we end up picking fights over stupid shit.
it doesn't help that he's bipolar.
but he is the most important thing in my life, we are completely devoted to each other, and being with him is worth the pain. not having him would be more painful to me than anything else.
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
Yea, it was just physically perfect but not that much emotional compatibility and then there was a guy I went out with that I would describe as perfect in terms of maturity but not so in others
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methatsme      When: 11 months ago
I pick fights at little things, sometimes without even realizing it. And then he gets his feelings hurt, says something hurtful back, I cry, and we make up. But usually it's not like that, hardly ever. No fight has ever been too serious. I do all the work with him it seems. He's not dependable. He won't call you when he says he will, and he has the worst memory of anyone I know. But yet, he's clever. He figures out how to save his ass day after day, in the most charming of ways. He's gotten pulled over 27 times, not once a ticket. He's charming and mysterious but not a romantic at all. Yet I always have the best time even doing nothing with him. Literally we drive around saying "What do you want to do?.I don't know, what do you want to do?" He's loyal beyond belief. He might not always be there for you because of that lack of dependability but he'll never leave you. We're not the PDA kind of type but yet, people always know that we're dating, even when they don't even know us. NOT perfect at all but that's just fine!
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Lumn3 That was scary to read because I could picture myself being that guy. - 11 months ago
Answerer Ha yea that is a little scary! - 11 months ago
 
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