The guy I like is nothing like me. He's very loud and "life and soul of the party" - I'm more reserved. I went to college and am now an attorney. He's in the military, and left school at 16. He's very athletic. I'm not. We make each other laugh, and find each other attractive. But are we too different for things to work out long term?
This sounds like a very good friendship you both share. If it was anything more, it wouldn't last very long. It's ok to be in a relationship with someone that's opposite from you in many ways, but if you don't share a lot of common interests... you'll get bored.
My marriage was very much the same way and that ended in heart break. I have been depressed about it for almost a whole year. I don't recommend that you put yourself in the same situation I was in.
You know what they say....opposites attract. I don't think you have to be alike on everything. Just the most important things. Like how you really feel about each other. Also your goals together, etc. - 11 months ago
Okay for me I think that outside stuff shouldn't even count you like him he likes? then ya good okay you may not like sports or whatever he's into but you don't have to, you might find that you have other stuff in common so just use that and go with it ,if it's meant to be then you will be fine if not then move on I mean come on life is short try to achieve as much as possible you never know who you'll end up settling down with to take the risk.. hope that helps
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 11 months ago
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