My boyfriend just told me he loved me,but... I have a hard time believing that its love. I think he might really, really like me, but its not love. When I told him this, he kind of got upset and asked me what I think the definition of love is that caused me to think his feelings were untrue. He said his feelings are definitely the real thing...and that he thinks about me from the moment he wakes up, until the moment he falls asleep, that everything- every song, every conversation, etc- reminds him of me, and that he is willing to do anything for me because he always wants to be with me. ...Is this love, or is this just crazy talk? We have only been dating for three weeks, but, we have been really good friends for about two years in which the whole time he has had feelings for me. I just want to, I guess, know if his feelings are true or if he's just kind of "obsessed" (for a lack of a better word)
Well it's only been three weeks it took me 3 months before I said I love you to my girlfriend. I think he is just really into you right now. Sorry it's sort but its true its way to early to say I love you. I was the same way I thought of her all the time but I didn't know I loved her because a new relationship fills you with emotions for a while then it might wear off.
How do you as an individual define it? Like how do you know you're in love? I'm just curious as to what different people's opinions on it are. I know...
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