Okay well there is this guy and I've liked him for about a year and a half. He has supposedly liked me too but I don't know if he really does or just wants something from me. I have never had sex with him, the farthest we have gone is kissing(making out) but all my friends think he is using me, we were together once. and for not that long:[ we fight a lot but always end up talking or seeing each other some how. I don't know if its meant to be or if he is really using me, although he swears he's not, I have my doubts. He is always the one to talk to me first when we fight and don't talk for a while. I'm very confused. Should I give up or keep trying? Help?
Does he insist on the making out when he's around you or is he there to actually spend time with you.If you have your doubts then play it safe.Sit him down and talk with him.If he tries to make out with you at the wrong times then he is just playing you.
Friends aren't always right,but what you think is whats best.It really depends on what the fights and arguments are over,and whether he causes them or not.Don't let him use you,make sure the guy you pick is actually there for you and not for the wrong reasons.
Well personally I don;t think he's using you. If ya known him for about a year in a half and no sex.....come on?? It sounds like he does have interest but you could be giving him either the wrong impression that you just wanna be cool with him, or the communication skills from both of you is obviously weak... It also seems that you are content with the level ya'll have been on all this time. Who knows he probably thinks that you don't wanna be with him like that.... You really need to break it down and ask him. just make it short and easy... Tell him that your interested and your ready to move to the next level.. if he's not willing than he's just not on the same page as you... At least you want be wasting your time....You're worth more than that girl and honestly be glad what your doing!!! lol just think bout it you haven't gave him none yet!!!! Most girls would have already done something the same night they met.....But anyway he does have interest in you but at the same time it sounds like his mind frame is different.... I suggest talk to him! Keep it real! Then you can either do your own thing or work it out with him.. it all depends on what he has to say...and that will be the TEST....
Well if it starts to seem that all he wants from you is sex and everything, then he's using you. But if he actually will hang out with you and you guys go out to a movie or out to dinner and he's not all about getting stuff from you then he's not using you and he's for real and he likes you.
Your friends don't always know whats best. They might hear something not completely true and they go and tell you, and just because she's your best friend and would never lie to you, doesn't means she's lying just that she heard the wrong thing. So go with what you feel not what the group feels.
Well, the fights and arguing, it really depends. Is he picking silly fights with you? If he is that's a sign of break up, but you guys aren't exactly going out so it would mean more that he wants to walk and get out of everything he got himself into.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I don't really know I usually don't plan dates very much because I always ask her where she wants to go. But I guess we would go to dinner then to a movie. I wouldn't dress upcause I don't think any date should be coat and tie. Usually I think a date should end with both people pleased and happy and with soft kiss.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
On the first date probably not that much because I'm a shy guy I really would have to get to know her before I would show my inner self. But mostly I would probably tell her about some of the things that has happened in my past and how my relationships ended. And maybe ask her what she looks for in a guy.