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I feel pathetic but I miss my ex boyfriend I dumped!

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xocrlox (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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But I was unable to stay with him because he wasn't treating me right n used coke. We remained 'friends' but still acted as though we were together and that lasted for a week until One night he was SO drunk, he called me then called my one friend, that just happened to have slept with over 60 men, to 'hang out with for 60 seconds'. He was so drunk she said he wasn't even making sense & doesn't remember. I was so angry, upset and disgusted that he would do that to me, I called him up while he was at work, and cursed him out on his voicemail, telling him to never call me again that he was a pig,disgusting, I was too good for him. Unfortunately we work together, & when I was at work I ignored him staring and just being an as*h*le. 1 weeks later I ended up being admitted in 2 a 4 month rehab for prescription drugs. During that time he did not hear from me once. I come back to work & has a new girlfriend that also works with us (not for nothing but I am better looking lol) but is just an as*h*le after all this time and what I went thru & constantly stare..I ignore him.

He was bad mouthing me, and I just ignored him, and eventually management got involved bc it was interfering with work. He left me alone SOMEWHAT. I gave him a birthday card on his desk to make ammend around thanksgiving. I wrote in the birthday card saying it was unfortunate how things turned out, but I hope one day we will be bale to look passed everything and become friends again I wish you nothing but the best of luck and have a safe and happy birthday!' I got transferred to another location for the weekends and he tried getting transferred right after me to my new location but he got denied. I truly miss him...

The most recent story...
He mentioned something about work 2 me, when he didn't have to, I would have found out that day. And This man was hitting on me about 40 but good looking, right in front of him. it happens, but never in front of him. So the guy had 2 tickets to a comedy show in his hand saying oh come on I wanna take you blah blah...n tom was coming by and he was staring, so I looked at him and he quickly moved his eyes to the tickets and squinted his eyes like he was trying 2 see the tix, so the man turned around and was like 'what the f*ck are you looking at?' lol and it was just funny...

All he does is stare at me. I know it is pathetic and I should just move on, but I love him, and I want to give it another chance. We were at our worst when we were together, I want to give it a try at our best. How do I get him to stop being so angry? When will he stop? why is he acting like this?

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Mother-Goose
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Mother-Goose (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Dude your in love with a cockhead and seriously it's pathetic how people love people more when they go screw other people. The guy isn't gonna change and either is your relationship with him if you did get back. Stop going for **** suckers and find a nice guy that treats you with a bit of respect mabe.
Good day to you even though you most probably won't read this
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Konvicts (Age:Under 18)      When: 11 months ago
You can't force things.Tell him how you feel.If he treats you like that I don't think he deserves you and you deserve better.You might never get rid of the feelings you have for him but think of yourself in a situation like this because you could end up getting hurt.

If you can't talk any sense into him,try to move on with your life.He will be the one who suffers in the end for losing someone like you.If things turn out bad,don't let him get to you.After all he was the one who didn't treat you right in the first place.

Whatever you decision I wish you the best of luck.
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Question Asker Thanks sweetie! I know ur right but I'm not ready yet, I will be soon but not yet. thanks for your advice! - 11 months ago
 

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