i said that not hearing from a some one who you are in a relationship with a month would feel like for ever at least for me what do guys think and what do the girls and women think on here and boys to for me its a month and I start to get worried even before that but a month is to long to not know what's going on with the person that I am in a relationship with
Update: will we are not even dating yet and I have hurd from him its not that I was just telling him that checking in onece in a while would mean a lot to me and that to most women including me a month would be like not hearing from a person for ever and he
11 months ago
Update: got it and understands now were I am coming from so he said he is willing to change his habits for me and check in more then a few times a week :D we used to date but things dident work out and if I asked him to do that before he would never have
11 months ago
Update: understood were I was coming from
11 months ago
Update: thanks so much for your answers
11 months ago
I agree with all the girls. 24-48 hours is long enough. EVERYONE & I do mean EVERYONE has a few minutes to send a text or an E Mail. Not to mention a quick call. I had a girl tell me (I was worried about her) I'm OK just been busy. If someone doesn't think enough of you to at least have some consideration for you well then try to forget them. It's not easy but it obvious that they don't care about you back.
What's causing this lack of communication? I've gone more than a month without hearing from my husband, but that's due to the fact he's deployed. If he is voluntarily not making contact with you, then he's probably either thinking that its pretty much over, or he's got some crazy ideas on how relationships work.
Wow. if it was a month I would just assume that the relationship was over and that he was too much of a jerk to tell me to my face. If you are in a serious relationship with someone (not someone you've gone on a few dates with, or are just 'talking' to) I would say that after a week I would really be wondering. Like someone else said. a couple days is long enough. Everyone has 30 seconds to send a quick text or something.
I've been in two relationships where this was the case. I didn't hear from either of them for about a month and I was extremely worried. However, when I found out the reason behind their "silence" I became very angry. Both guys were jerks and undeserving of my time.
To me, if a guy hasn't talked to you for a month, there is something going on that requires your attention. And if you plan to continue the relationship, you should discuss this with the guy. Relationships CANNOT exist without communication. From BOTH people.
um.a month is ridiculous. I would say that if he were interested, he would find the time to make a quick phone call or shoot ya a quick text. I don't think he considers it a "relationship'
OMG a month not hearing from the person you're in a rel. with? That's just crazy! I even consider 3 days long. I set a goal like if he does not contact me within a week and without any explanation, then the next week I will like text him and ask what's up and where have he been because haven't heard anything for weeks. You can judge from that point if he is still interested or not from his responses. If he doesn't respond, call him and say: I don't know where do you want this rel. going but I am not liking this for having to worry bout you since haven't heard for a month. Then, never call him or initiate anything anymore. It's his turn to respond to you. If he doesn't pick up the phone, then you'll know what to do! goodluck ^^
Okay, I agree. I had this keep going on with my most recent girlfriend and, after awhile, moved on. She comes back, goes ballistic, then accused me of "cheating". I felt horrible. She never got over it and ended up screwing me over, big time, in the end. It seemed like the better the sex, the longer she would disappear. Does that make sense? - 11 months ago
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Not neccessarily. For me, it's more how the two of you make each other feel and how caring etc you are towards each other. Sex is the additional part not the main part of the rel. - 11 months ago
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