So I dated this guy for about 3 1/2 months.Everything was so good. We never argue and we had a lot of communication. I really fell in love with him. I even lost my virginity with him. I thought that he was the one for me. But then all of the sudden he went out of town for 2 weeks and when he came back he broke-up with me because he said that he still had feelings for his ex and that they were going to get back together. A week later he calls me saying that he was not with her anymore.From there we have been talking again.Everything is like it used to be before. We go out once in a while. He even introduce me to his family which I had never meet when we were going out. And every time he gets drunk he tells me that he loves me and that he wants to get married with me. Every time we are together we have a good time.It seems like we are boyfriend and girlfriend but we have never talked about us getting back together.Although we do tell each other t "I love you" and all that sweet stuff.We never talk about what happen when he broke up with me.He once told me that he needed to talk to me about everything that had happen but we never did. The thing is that every time we go out we end up having sex. I don't know if that's the only thing he wants from me or not.
He's definitely using you. He went out for 2 weeks without telling you where he went? That's enough to make you believe he had no intentions on actually staying with you. He's using you for sex because his 1st choice(ex girlfriend) obviously turned him down or something like that. He broke up with you for another woman now he's crawling back to you as a back up plan. Every time you guys go out he insists you have guys have sex so that should be the warning flag that he's using you for your body not your love.... Dump him next chance you get, you deserve better than people like that.
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