My ex and I broke off due to some complicated issues and now we are friends or more than friends? but sometimes I feel that he wants me back yet sometimes I don't feel that way. and what I think is that he want me to be the person to ask for the patch? But I don't want it that way as he is always way too proud of himself, too highly of himself even though I don't deny I still have feelings for him. So if anybody can please advise me how to make my ex-boyfriend want me back, please let me know.
You can't force someone to want you back. Especially if they had feelings for you before, and are changed now. Before anything, you are going to have to continue being friends with this guy. A relationship has to start somewhere. If he puts his pride over you then I suggest you leave him be. You don't want or deserve a guy who would put his own issues over love.
If you want a chance however, your going to have to make the first move, or you have to be patient and wait it out. Be friends with him but try to show him the fact that you could move on unless he wants to make the first move on you. If you just sit around waiting and not moving on with your life, he will get the idea that you will be there for him whenever and he might just keep you as a rebound.
Overall, your going to have to realize that this could go one of many ways. It may not go the way you want it to, but if this guy isn't the right one then know that there is someone out there for you.
Firstly you can't make anyone do anything they don't want, or feel the same way about. you two broke up for a reason and I think you should keep it at that. it seems that you still have feelings and that's understandable but you can do much better and there are always more fish in the sea as they say. let things fall into place and who know, in a month or two you might find the man of your dreams. just keep your eyes open and keep an eye on your horizon. you will find someone, you just first have to let go of the past.