Please help me, this is a guy who has been on and off towards me, pushes me away, then pulls me back in. I really thought things were working out between us, he was loving for a while, but now it seems to have all gone through the drain again. I have been with him for over 2 years.
Everything feels completely different between us again. He no longer looks at me, doesn't want to touch me (and if I try to give him affection he pulls away and makes some excuse). He seems to be picking at me and making me feel bad on a regular basis, there is no connection anymore,
When we were out the other night with friends he completely ignored me, it's like I wasn't even there, even when I talked to him he just brushed me aside as if I didn't say anything. When I asked what was wrong he said "I'm just doing my own thing".
There is no love in his eyes anymore, when I am in his company it feels like he isn't even there with me.
What does "I'm just doing my own thing" mean? It's like I have probably displeased him once again, but I have no idea what or how.
Do not blame yourself for his issues. It seems like he comes and goes from your relationship and you need to decide if you want better in life. Communication is the key to any relationship and if you do not have it you have nothing.
If there is no 'real communication' with him other than what he did say, then you have nothing to go on. Until he wants to really discuss this serious (to you anyway) issue, then you are just in limbo with him.
I am in almost the same type of situation with a guy but less time than 2 years but over a year. Just today I sent him an email about our need to talk to see if or how is interest level in fixing our relationship.
Girl, I hate to brake it to you like this, but it seems YOU ARE HIS BOOTY CALL. Do you have any respect for yourself? Two years of being used like this? Are you mad? Do you have any feelings? You seem like a sweet, honest person, don't let him treat you like a rug. He only keeps you as his "girlfriend" in order to have somebody to fawn on him, make him feel like he is the man.
What does he mean by "doing his own thing?" Don't you think you should be included in his "thing"? I mean, being with somebody for two years makes them a big part of each others life. He seems to be important to you, that is why you are asking about his behaviour, but, do you think you are important to him? I don't think so.
Dump him! You should have done it a loooooooong time a go!
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