Theres this guy, lets call him Tom. So Tom and I met in the summer when I was playin soccer with the guys. We started off real great, and later that night I ended up walkin him halfway home and talking. We became best friends and spent time together, I even rode a bike wit him to his house and met his dad. (Btw the bike ride is real long!) He said there aren't many girls like me, who can be so playful yet not so serious. I started going to his house, and recently about 3 weeks ago, I kissed him when we were laying on the couch watching tv. he told me he wanted to kiss me real badly.. and the next day in school he acted completely normal! I thought he'd ignore me like every other guy. he said I was actin weird and ignoring him. well the next time and next and next and next times, we hooked up. but the last time I came over, we ended up doin a little more. he ended up fingering me and I gave him a blowjob, we even showered together but didn't have sex [there wasnt a condom.. he's still a virgin and me too] he acts completely normal still. he talks to me in school like how we were best friends before, and calls me. but after that day I had a feeling he wouldn't talk to me. surprisingly that night, he borrowed a friends phone and texted me sayin hey its me. just askin what I was doing. also the day at his house, I told him I liked him, and he told me he liked me too.. before any of this ever happened he told me about how he doesn't think it will last any longer with his girlfriend and that they fight a lot and everything and how she's not like me and his dad likes me better than her and bla bla bla i wanna know if he's just another guy or if he really thinks of me and what do you think will happen next? not only has he been there when I like him but he's been there when I cried about my best friend moving and everything. he's never put a move on me either, I was the one that did it first..
I think he likes you, but you two might be taking it a bit fast for not technically dating yet. Slow down a bit and see if he is still interested. If things keep moving then go for it. But things might get shaky if you keep up the high speeds. People get burned a lot easier in fast moving relationships
What do yuo mean? how am I suppose to slow down and find out if he's still interested? like not doing ANYTHING at all? explain please =] - 10 months ago
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Like hang out, kiss, but don't go to sex. Like just kiss and hang out for a week or two. Then every once in a while make out with him. Then later on move to sex after like a month or however long. - 10 months ago
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