I've been with this guy for 6 months, its been great but we don't get to see eachother much, once a week, so its hard. (we work opposit shifts). Lately, I feel he's been pulling away, he's not that affectionate, I make the effort to see him. I'm really easy going with him, he can do whatever, I'm not needy..but I feel like I'm pursuing him a lot more, and he's not as interested. How can I make him pursue me again? I try not to make the effort to see him, hoping he'll come around, but its to hard for me because I wanna see him. How can I get him interested again?
Guys, or at least most guys, will feel that you are pursuing him. Which will make you less desirable. If he doesn't call, don't call, if he doesn't come see you, don't go see him. It will be tough since you said you you like him a lot, but if you want him you need him to realize that you are not very needy. Never bring up a conversation asking why he didn't call or why he didn't come.
This is tough one. I know guys do not like to be pursued, the hard part is figuring out where their head it at. Are they looking for someone else and just stringing you along or are they just being guys? Guys are less emotional than we are and don't feel the need to be close like we do. If we interpret incorrectly or act on an emotional whim, we mess things up. 6 months is not a long time, find other things to focus on. Friends, hobbies, career, family. Stay busy. I promise, you will be better for it.
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