So about 3 months about I told a friend that I pretty steadily been going out with, that it was over. I had done this to him several times before, but never had our realationship gone this far, and the break up was considerably more hard for him. After the break up, he was VERY upset, for awhile! He continually accused me and told me how I had destroyed his life and how he didn't believe in love anymore. It even as far as to his freinds telling how depressed he seemed in school. This went on for about a month. finally it seemed like he was moving on and were both happy to just do our own thing without bothering each other. I felt bad about what it seemed I'd put him through, but happy that we were finally both content without each other.
So, about 2 months ago, a had to break up with yet another guy. he turned out to be a total jackass and cheated on me. It just so happens that for about a month, I had been dating both of these guys, but not in a realationship with either of them. They both knew about each other. I had actually broken up with the first friend for the second guy. The first guy and me have known each other for a pretty long time, but when it comes to us dating, he's not quite as adventurous as myself, and he sometimes bores me.
But once I had broken up with the jackass, I realized it wasn't so bad with the first guy. Low and behold, it seemed too late for this revalation considering the blessing of the first guy finally moving on after our breakup.
Recently I've found myself lonely, and I've sort of been pondering the thought of attempting to get back with the first guy. I've expressed my idea to others, and I've gotten nothing but negative feedback- that I really did destroy his life and he would be so better off not being called into my trap again. I don't know if I've changed, but I know now that I certainly wouldn't play around with him for such a small reason the way I did before. But I'm still really on the fence deciding about this. I mean, I don't even know if he will take me back. Is it even worth my effort trying to win him back over?
if this is what you really want then go for it, but don't let him know how you feel and and go from there even though he may have moved how most likely he still has feelings for you and if you get back together and break his heart or watever again then it might be worse 2nd time around. don't live in regret it only stresses you out, nothing wrong with trying, hey I say go for it
well you rrly did break his heaart. tormented his desire for love. winning him bac will be hard. so rite now you shuld be friends for a while because he is not rrly over u. you think he is but inside he is not. he is still healing so if you tell him you still like him it wuld bring more pain its best to be friends. and sometimes pop the wuestion I miss u, you still part of me to remind hm of the love ya shared.
You can't just drop and take up relationships with people. You are doing what you want to do and not considering truthfully, the pain you are putting others through, leave the poor guy alone and move on, and remember to not consider a relationship with someone until you are absolutely sure its what you want. Also...taking time alone is a good idea, you don't need someoen hanging off your arm every moment. Take time to think things through a little better.
I would agree that everybody needs some time alone. I don't go relationship hopping, I actually avoid getting into serious realationships altogether. I've in fact had plenty of time (2+months!) without any of my typical loosely goosey realtionships (if you will). In that time I think I realized how nice it was to have him before, and even with his awkward personality he wasn't so bad after all. - 10 months ago
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Well fingers crossed then that he still wants you, be aware he may be very weary of you and may not go there because of being hurt before... don't hurt him again. - 10 months ago
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