I have this boyfriend. We have been going out for more than a month now and he is four years older than me so he is a little more experienced with EVERYTHING if you no what I mean, but I found out he has been smoking weed and I love him to death and all my friends say DUMP HIM but I just can't! I know he loves me and he makes me so happy and I love him but he could die from this! What should I do?
I think you should sit down and talk with him, he might be willing to give up the habit if it bothers you that much. I wouldn't dump him over it though weed isn't as bad as all those other drugs out there. I dated someone who did it, but I ended up leaving because he was spending our bill money on the habit. If he starts doing that then you should leave him, but until it presents a problem I would stay with him.
I think that you should just sit him down one day and talk to him about it. Give him another chance and if he don't stop then you gotta choose to stay or to go and it's going to prove how much he loves you. Well I hope you chose the right answer!
It depends on how strong of a person you are...if you've only been dating for a month or so then he's not likely to stop smoking weed for you. I'm sure his friends do it too which makes it even harder and less likely for him to quit. So, you can either dump him and find someone that is more your age and shares the same values or stay with him but do not, DO NOT, change your own values for him. Be safe, above all things.
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