I'm so confused. My "bf" of a few months and I moved very very quickly and he moved into my apartment shortly after we became a monogamous couple. We have since "broken up", but nothing has changed. He still lives here, we still have sex, we still go places together and hang out. He still "wants to be with me, just without the title and the drama", and "I am such a good girl, probably the best, but I deserve someone better than him"..... to me this seems like a classic case of why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free, but my best guy friend said maybe he is just such a commit-a-phob that he can't bring himself to be a "boyfriend".....wtf? how would you guys react? and what would you do? my best judgement tells me that he should be with me or get the hell out, right?
Another classic case of guys wanting benefits of a relationship without committing to love. Dump him. He's trying to milk you for everything you have, every last drop. He is seeing exactly how much he can get out of you. Similar to a leech. So many guys try to do this to their ex. Don't let him keep the physical interaction with you without committing to you as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
You should just forget about this guy. If he won't take no for an answer call authorities and have him move out all his stuff immediately. It will be a lot of work and pain but you don't want a 'leech' using you. Even if he says he's sorry and he wants you as a girlfriend eventually, you have to find the courage in you to say no. He's made it clear before saying without the title and drama. You deserve a guy who is proud to call you his girlfriend and would love and respect you enough to commit to you and make you happy.
I'm going through the same thing right now. I had my bf for 1yr !/2 we broke up due to financial reasons but he always told me when I'm good we will be better again. now he is telling me he don't want a relationship but nothings going to change. ya I don't know wut to do either I love him and he loves me. idk if one day we will be together again..
What I think is that they are just trying to figure out what they want in life. or trying to see if they can get something better.
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