He wanted to know if he could get $300.00 from me to get his car out of the shop. I told him NO because first of all he left me two weeks after he married me to be with another woman. Second, he is on two dating services and still meeting new females to this day. So I told him go get it from the women that he is sleeping with. He said that I was wrong because he would give me everything and anything he had, But I am also looking at the debt he left me in the 13 times that he left me. I had to break my lease I could not pay the rent I was not working I was carrying his baby and he was the cost of me loosing my job. I got in debt with payday loans for him, I almost lost my car for him if it was not for my dad helping me out. I have been through a lot with this guy he have my parents with a phone bill that is $2000.oo that he used up. It hurted me to tell him no even though he done a lot for me, but he also messed over me more ways than one. So am I wrong for not giving him the $300.00 to get his car out the shop?
What a sleeze! seriously, I'm glad you didn't give him anything. He's clearly walking all over you, and now that he knows you are standing up for yourself, he's going to want you back (it alllllways happens like this) so don't be surprised if he comes back begging for another chance. UGH this guy is an ass.
Thank you, I did not and I will not give him anything. He has been calling and I have been just looking at the phone ring he will get the picture sooner or later. - More than a year ago
Sounds like he thinks he can take advantage of you since you were'nt the one who did him wrong. He doesn't sound like he cares how he effects you and I definately wouldn't feel comfortable letting him spend time with his child alone but if he wants time he should definately care for the baby too
Thank you for your opinion I agree with you and you have said the same things that my other friends have told me. I just did not want God to punish me for not helping him out. - More than a year ago
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No problemo He just needs to grow up...He needs to provide for himself and his baby but not ask you to especially since your the one taking care of the baby. I honestly hate when people think they can just even bother asking something rediculous when they can just go make the money themselves. Like he could go get a cash loan or pawn something. He sounds like a lazy careless guy lol - More than a year ago
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He does not *need* a car. He can take the bus. If he NEEDED money for medicine he would die without, then I could see where guilt could come in.
You said that he's done a lot for you, but from what you're telling us, he's done nothing but screw you over... multiple times. You said no. I applaud you. Don't let him take advantage of you.
He is the type of person that said he will never take a bus and that he will never walk. You are correct I have gotten screwed over many of time, but God see everything that I have been through and this is why he is in the situation that he is in now. But, I guess like he say what I will not do other woman will. - More than a year ago
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wowww you're stupid...why would you even ask that question? couldn't you get it the first or even third time he left you? even the 6th time would've been good...get it together ur between 25 to 29, time to grow up and get some sense
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