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He cheats, why stay?

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Vassar (Age:25 to 29)     When: 11 months ago
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Why is it that a girl will know that her guy is cheating on her but she stays with him anyway? and why is it that some girls tolerate it but other girls don't?

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Starlina (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
Beacuse some women think it's okay so they tolerate it. Some women have low self-esteem and think that no one else will find them attractive. And some women just dame right dum and stick around for that type of shit. And if your smart and bright enough you would leave his ass and think about it all. You don't have to subject yourself to a ass hole. Remember ladies love yourself & repect yourself and body. True love will find you. And of course you are beautiful inside and out. And don't never forget that. peace out.
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Starlina
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Starlina (Age:30 to 35)      When: 11 months ago
Because most girls are stupid and feel it's o.k. to accept this. But for me hell no because I have a lot of respect for myself and dignity. I'm a strong woman that won't stand for this type of shit. And of course I know I can do a hell of a lot better than this. If someone cheats on me I won't be around. Most woman feel like that can't do better without him. That's a dame lie. Actually you are better than him.

Alot of woman lack self-esteem and self body images of them self. But you have to believe in your self, love yourself and know that your beautiful inside and out. And you shouldn't have to settle for less. Know that you will come across somebody that will not cheat on you and love you for you.. And you shouldn't stay with him for financial reasons or any other reasons you can think of. And if your stuck your just as stupid and he is and the world doesn't need to keep getting jack-asses in the world. holla back!
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golden-sexy-gurl You just answered it perfectly, well done. - 11 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Just difference in personality and some girls don't want to believe its true.. I personally wouldn't put up w/ it and I say that when I'm not being cheated on but you know if you love the person you want to work it out.
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Deeplove55
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Deeplove55 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Girls who stay with guys who cheat on them are insecure,no self love, afraid of being alone, have low self esteem, in denial, and just plain stupid. Girls that don't tolerate are strong, secure, confident women who know that they are worthy of better treatment. They have high self esteems, smart, and love themselves.
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barbs2212 Well if you want the relationship to work, fight it out..but remember it will be for life...and sooner or later...so get out now while you can. You deserve better. Be strong and move on. Dump that ignorant, selfish bastard. - 11 months ago

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hapa18 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
I agree with ptgirl to some extent. With the girls who stay, it's sometimes either they don't want to believe that he'll do it again (They feel he'll change or realize he loves her more and not stray again) or because they feel that if they let him go, that will be the end of their dating career or it's just plain denial. Lots of girls I've met are really good at denial. I don't know why some girls tolerate it, honestly. I know I wouldn't tolerate cheating. If he cheats, then I leave. End of story.
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samthan I am just wondering if there is anything left. I am trying my best and being positive I know people don't understand why I am staying for now I am I care about him a lot I know he loves me he says that every day and he got a necklace for me recently - 11 months ago
Answerer But he cheats? how many times has he cheated and does he still do it? - 11 months ago

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Ptgirl (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
It's because a girl who can tolerates it can handle it, maybe she have done that in her past relationship, she cheats. And as for the girls who stay even if she know her bf cheats, its because of love...
It depends on what a person believes in a relationship...
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samthan To be honest my ex cheated I did stay we are still are on a break and trying to work things out we dated for over 4 years I still love him I totally have doubts about are future even when we are on a break he sleeping with someone else. I just wondering - 11 months ago
Answerer Thats a different thing girl, people who break up needs time to figure out things for themselves not lying around with other women" that's why its a time off" its a time for both parties to heal. If my man would do that to me, I suggest I get out. - 11 months ago
 

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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
I feel it as they don't want to accept the fact until its too late then they get hurt and want the attention of being the "oh she got cheated on girl... let's worry about her"
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