My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 10 months, our relationship is ok, Not until lately he told me that there is a girl in his office being link to her, he told me that honestly and at first I was being silent about it, jealous then on dec he texted me that he told me he loves me and things like that. I replied I found out that it was from the girl cell phone, the girl ask him to text me " she was being friendly and then the other day she changed her number and texted her yesterday I was gonna say thank you for letting my boyfriend text in her cell, I know my boyfriend wouldn't do that so she told me that she was the one telling my man to text me. My man told me that I have nothing to worry about but it seems I have. Cause she texted some like this " I miss him so much because he's kinda nice to me and my man makes fun of her,
Please help me, how do I deal with jealousy, I suspect the girl is trying to destroy our relationship, plus I'm not feeling well now I'm hemorrhaging physically...
I am seeing the girl 3 days from now, I'm being cool with her and I don't wanna let her see that I'm jealous...
Update: I am wide awake now and got up early I can't sleep and even food doesn't want to enter my system, I am planning to drop a subtle hints to my guy that I am jealous in a way that I am just joking... Honestly I hate to be jealous and I can't
8 months ago
Update: An hour ago, I called him up from his office, we talked good and he said he miss me and talking to, I guess its just an "IS" thing internship syndrome with the girl in his office. I told him that I'll talk to him by Friday and he said he will wait for it.
8 months ago
Update: He's been joked and inked still with the girl , by his officemates apparently I think there is nothing going on between them.. I guess its kinda the "office thing" Updates: holding until Friday
8 months ago
It's perfectly normal to be jealous and it's not a lack of trust that is making you feel that way its the fact that you want to be the only person that can ever be around him and feel the joy he brings to you!! It is ok to think things like that and just tell him the truth that you don't like her and are jealous that she is flirting with you at work!! He may not even realize that she is doing what she's doing and he will understand where you are coming from just tell him to look at it from your point of view and ask him if he would be jealous of the same thing happening to you!! Don't get stressed though and you need to make sure that you eat and sleep right so get this out of your system before it starts making you sick physically you need to let it out!
I have a wonderful boyfriend. We've been together for a happy couple years. I would never cheat on him and have absolutely no intention of leaving...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
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Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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