I'm in a long distance relationship. Everything was going great until one of my friends got back from the army. He started coming around more and I started calling her less and ignoring her calls. I lied about where I was and what I was doing because I didn't want her to get mad at me for being around him and his friends because they are into things that aren't exactly legal. Recently I broke down, I told her about everything and now she thinks I am/was cheating on her although I wasn't. Then the other day I said I'd talk to her when I got home from work, but I went out looking at rings all over town and I wasn't getting any of her calls or anything, and I said that I had to work late because she wouldn't have believed the truth, and now she's 100% convinced that I'm cheating on her. And finally, today, I told her I would call her when I got off work, but I went and ate food first, so now she's giving up on me. I want to prove my love for her and prove that Im not cheating on her but I can't think of anything within my power to do.
Update: She gave me one last chance to not fark up.
11 months ago
Ye ok if you want respect and want a girl not to get suspicious don't lie if you are with your friends tell her you are with your friends. Answer her calls that's just out of respect don't ignore the girl. I don't care if I'm going out with justin timberlake you ignore me well then good bye.. and you lied about what you were doing. Why would you do that that's just stupid she wouldn't get mad if you were honest with her. Personally I think if I was her no offense you'd be gone because you had plenty ways to prove you loved her and you didn't do any of them. You've done the total opposite.
I know, I farked up. I don't know what to do to fix it. I'm not all right in the head, and that's part of the reason that I screwed up in the first place. but I screwed up, not my head. - 11 months ago
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Maybe then you gotta deal with your shit sort it out then give it time and go back and show her you changed. - 11 months ago
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