Ok, I feel like everything in this relationship with my boyfriend has to be a game. I want him to be more faithful. I want him to buy me flowers,cards, or a bear, something that will have me think of him besides him buying me food when I'm with him. And most importantly I want him to call or text me every time he's on break or home, at least everyday. But he doesn't. He doesn't give me the attention I want. And sometimes I feel like I have to call or give him the offer to go out because he never asks me to go to places with him unless I tell him, I feel that way because I'm scared to lose him and have his ex win him back.
He told me I'm his second love and that his past ex was his first. I'm scared that one day he will go back to her and leave or cheat on me with her because she desperately wants him back even though she now has a fiance in another country, she's always all over my boyfriend now and even told him that she will wait for him. My boyfriend said he won't go back to her but I don't believe that because he still stays in touch with her. I want him to give me the attention I want. I want to feel special to him. And I want it because I feel like I do so much more for him.
He makes me feel like I'm in the guy's position in the relationship. I'm going through so much drama with other girls in school over him, I'm doing bad in school because of him. I just have this feeling that he's going to make me feel stupid and that he's playing me just because he has more freedom then me and because girls are always all over him. I mean I already told him that whatever he does wrong to me, I will do the same back and so far I already showed him but I don't want to play these I'll do the same thing back games with him for too long.
I skimmed it and found that you've talked to him about it. It sounds like you are jealous and rightfully so. There's a women is impeding on your relationship and which may cause it to fail or lesson it's value.
Now how do we solve this emotion? Talk to him about it and try to find a solution that copes with both of your needs. He wants to be "friends" with her and you want her out of the picture (i'm assuming). Maybe work it out that if he hangs out with her, you are there.
Gotta communicate and work it out.
With that said, sounds like he's still lusting for her like a girl would with the asshole guy. She knows it bad for her to get with him but she does lust for him.
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