It's kind of complicated. But I'll start here. People tell me he's cheating and all of this and they are 100% sure because they heard it from this girl but I can't tell you who but she has been with your boyfriend lately. I ask him about it and he says he would never do that he loves me so much and I am perfect for him and he wants us to be together forever.
So should I follow my mind saying there is a possibility that he is cheating and he's just an amazing liar and can lie right to my face no problem. Or follow my heart knowing that he is there for me and people talk shit but he has been there for me through a lot and my heart tells me that he's for real and he means everything he says and would never lie to me or cheat on me.
So pretty much the question is. Should I follow my mind and believe he's cheating on me and leave him? Or should I follow my heart and believe him knowing that he would never do that?
Heart vs mind also known as emotion Vs rational. Can your friends benefit from you two splitting? do you trust your friends? Are they girls and trying to stir things up for their own amusement? Take into consideration what they are saying.
I've had plenty of guy friends who my friends and I who aren't emotionally involved were able to spot and see things he couldn't see in his relationship and vice versa.
Why are the best doctors the ones who are able to remove themselves emotionally in order to function properly? Emotion clouds the rational decisions.
With that being said, good luck... use your mind to decipher things.
I don't even know the girl who told me. She told my friend who told me. Also, my boyfriend has screwed people over so they might just try to get back at him. I talked to my boyfriend and he wants us to get an apartment and all of that. I trust him I think - 11 months ago
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