Me and my boyfriend broke up awhile ago due to me having financial problems. We still act the same now as when we did when we were going out. I asked about our relationship a bit ago and he said that nothing will change meaning we still act like we are going out. Giving gifts we else however we acted when we were going out act like still. He said the only thing that's going to be different is that he will be able to hang out with people now like girls. I do not like this but I have to deal with it. I know that one day he will ask me out again. His friends have told me. the other day also he was hanging out with one of his friends that is a girl and I was so scared that he was going to do something with her when I asked he said no and said never because she has a boyfriend and all but what I do not understand is that she sends him pictures of herself and one of her half naked. What does this mean. I love him to death and feel in my heart one day things will change, what should I do.
The two of you need to set some boundaries because there seems to be some mixed signals going on. You shouldn't have to wait around for him to ask you out again. If he wants to be with you, he will be with you. If not then you should probably just move on and explore your options.
Until he's willing to commit, don't make your heart available to him. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. For me, a relationship needs to be all or nothing. Either we're together or not, none of this dating, but hanging out with and meeting other people. Sounds like he's still interested, but wants to keep his options open. He may not be "looking" but he doesn't want to be taken should another "opportunity" present herself.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
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