Alright well I just got my first boyfriend a week ago and he is absolutely uhMAAAZZZing. Now he is very experienced and I'm completely unexperienced. I don't want to seem stupid in front of him, because the whole boyfriend girlfriend thing to me is completely new (yes I know that's sad). So my question is what can I do to seem less...well less stupid. I just feel weird because he's really experienced and I'm not. He knows the ropes and I don't. Well any suggestions?
Kind of a hard thing to explain but ill try anyways.
First you just act like he's your boyfriend and people will know that your together. I mean if your at school he walks you to class holds your hand gives you a kiss and you go to class. You sit together at lunch and stuff like that. Same thing with the mall kinda of except no classes or lunch.
If you go to his house or he comes over yours, just be with him. If your watching a movie rest your head on his shoulder and he'll lift your chin up and kiss you. If your just hanging out kiss him do stuff with him don't be scared or uncomfortable and think too much because if you think to much it doesn't come as naturally. Don't think everything will come to you, I promise.
Out to movies, he'll pay for you most likely and when choosing the movie don't choose a chick flick exactly I mean he probably won't enjoy it. Choose something you both would like to see so you both enjoy yourself. When your watching the movie hold his hand put your head on his shoulder etc.
Out to dinner. he'll pay probably again. You order you eat. When ordering don't order like spaghetti or something huge and messy personally I usually just get like something small but then again I don't eat a ton. haha I still order of the kids menu but that's okay.
So I mean once your with him and out or at his house at school or just hanging out, everything will come naturally, as long as you don't over think everything and make it seem difficult and psyche yourself out, because you can do it and its not a big deal.
Also, don't call him every 5 minutes, he'll get annoyed but who wouldn't really. And do NOT let him force you to do anything you don't want to.
You just be yourself. Just smile. Hug him. *shrug* He'll probably pay for everything , but I seriously hate it when girls say "I wanna go to this concert" and they just keep going on and on even though they know I blew my last hundred bucks on that puppy she wanted. Just. Don't do that.
You might wanna sit near him at lunch. Oh and if there's a jerk annoying you. You know who to tell.
Guys like it when girls are all innocent. Well I know I do XD.
Smile. Take it easy. Life offers a few wonderful first experiences. Enjoy them. As the saying goes, it's in the living. Don't worry about being smooth and stylish all the time - just enjoy the process and let yourself feel good about it.
You really don't. He knows it's your first relationship and there's nothing you can do to mask yourself as a veteran relationshippie. Just emulate couples that you observe and you'll find your own rhythm.
I know about as much as you do or way less but I think if you act like you're just hanging out with your girlfriends when you're with him everything will be fine! Good luck! <3
Please do not act like he's one of your girlfriends. The last thing he wants to do is hear about clothes and all the crap young girls yap about. The sooner you learn this, the sooner you can begin to communicate with males. *cheers - 10 months ago
I get what That-Guy is saying, but I think the point is to relax and remember that she is good hanging out with friends - don't stress, be your fun self. Besides that, the ladies can talk about what they want to. I'm glad enough when she's talking to me. - 10 months ago
Answerer
Yeah that's what I was meaning and when I talk to my girlfriends we don't talk about clothes and stuff like that "That-Guy"! - 10 months ago
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