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I've been with my husband for going on 6 years and we have only been...

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orangelady (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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I've been with my husband for going on 6 years and we have only been married for almost a year. However, the problem is this; I love him a lot but he has lots of trouble showing how he feels. He is not romantic at all. I bought books and made suggestions and just about anything I could think of to get him to treat me special if just once a year. He still has yet to try.

I guess the question is am I crazy for pushing him to be romantic with me and maybe find a little foreplay in our sex life again? If I'm not crazy what should I do. He doesn't seem to understand how big a problem this is to me even though I have thrown fits a lot about it in the last two years.

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rocket (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Stop having sex with him until he "woos" you. Guys are just lazy but they can find some energy when they don't get their sex!
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marisa (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
My friend went through the same thing with her husband of 10 years. They actually got separated last year (over different things but that was part of it). It wasn't until he didn't have her around that he realized how much he took for granted. The only idea I'd have is to suggest couples therapy and if he doesn't want to go (which I doubt he will) he can fix the problem himself. It's amazing how often guys take affection and attention for granted!
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