yesterday my boyfriend and I got into a fight because I asked him if he loved me, he said y do I always gotta ask him questions like that, I told hm because he doesn't show it, after a while he told me y am I wasting my time with him if I don't really no if he loves me or not, and I no he loves me and I told him that I do no it, but he said y do I doubt him, and that y am I in love with someone that doesn't love me back as much as I want, long story short we ended up in an awkward fight, today I told him not to doubt me and to forgive me, he said he forgave me but can someone plz tell me y he was mad at me, what should I do, what did I do wrong, and how I can fix it, and does he truly think that I doubt him
He doesn't love you. There's nothing to fix. A man who was really in love, would work hard to make sure you knew that. If you gotta ask, you already have the answer.
Isn't it obvious? You told him he didn't love you, and apparently you've asked questions like that a lot, so it makes me think you're constantly untrusting of his feelings towards you and it got on his nerves.
Yea I no that much, I no I pissed him off he even said it, but I don't ask it constantly only whens he is distant with me, so what do I do? how can I prove to him that I do trust him, that I do no he loves me that I only want him to show it more to me - 10 months ago
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How do you want him to show he loves you? - 10 months ago
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All I want from him is to show me more, like to kiss me to hug me to hold me to talk to me and have fun with me, maybe have sex again, but if we don't that's fine, I only want him to physically show me not by his actions because with those I no he does love me, but I girl wants to be touched and cared for not just looked at - 10 months ago
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Have you asked him why he's less physical with you? - 10 months ago
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No, but he said that only because he doesn't do something doesn't mean he stoped loveing me or lost intrest - 10 months ago
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You can't hold things against him he doesn't even know he is or isn't doing. Talk to him about how physical he is with you and that you'd wish he'd be more. - 10 months ago
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Yea ok I will, thanks so much, very helpful :) - 9 months ago
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No problem. I hope I helped. - 9 months ago
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Do you ask him this question often though? He might be bothered if you ask it every time you see him or if you ask too often. He might think that you're insecure if you ask too often, that's one of the reasons he's bothered. However, if you just ask once a while, your boyfriend is not into you. He does not love you as much as you think he is. You know, be confident in this matter and step it up. Don't be afraid to lose this guy. If he truly does love you, he will be scared to lose you. Why on earth he respond with "y am I in love with someone that doesn't love me back as much as I want" isn't it clear? He just give you a HUGE HINT that he doesn't love you as much as you wanted him to. Anyway, if you want to try to fix it, you shouldn't ask that question but instead asking him to show more attention and love to you and tell him how cute he was when he does that. If he does not even want to try to please you after you told him that, then hehe I should not say more... dump him!
If you all are fighting over why he does not respond to you asking if he loves you then I would rethink about staying in this relationship. If he does not show you love or tell you it EVERYDAY then why stay with him and fight of stupid stuff? As far as him saying that you are wasting you time with him, I would take that as a sign that he is losing interest in you but doesn't not want to take responsibility and break-up with you. If you want to stay in the relationship then ask him why he is so defensive all the time and take your time and talk it out.
Well he shows it to me, with his actions but he doesn't show it to me physically and doesn't really say it, I shows me his love everyday, but I wish he would be more physical and verbal, but thank u, I will ask him that and talk things out - 9 months ago
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