My girlfriend of 3yrs breaks up with me out of nowhere. No explanation, no excuse. A month later we get back together, but things aren't the same. We're not as close. We break up again, and get back together like 4-5 times in the past 8 months. She just started calling me again and we hung out a few times. She said she was stupid and wants me back, wants to get married, move in together all that kinda stuff. Now since she broke up with me so many times I'm kinda not so sure if I should believe her. She gets upset that I'm not so excited when we talk about a future together. I'm just not sure if she will be around for a while or if she's going to leave again. What should I do? What should I tell her? Should I date her again?
I don't know what's up with passenger - who cares if you ask anonymously. Now, to the real question...
I'd think a break or two over the course of 3-4 years is acceptable while you feel each other out for long-term future. But, damn, that many! I'd say screw her and move on to somebody that's going to treat you better and hold on to you.
From my experience best relationships have the biggest problems. What makes them "the best" relationship is after all the problems you still stay together, minus the breaks here and there. Those breaks will finalize, not sure how old you are or how old she is, but you need to give her another chance, if you think it's been too many times. Mention her in a nice way that you won't be able to trust her again if same shit starts happening. Bottomline, give another chance as long as you love her.
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