Do you believe in love at first sight?

Love at first site doesn't exist, because you're too clouded with emotions and lust to be actually in love in the beginning of the relationship.

If you actually do end up falling in love with that person, than it's just coincidence -- it doesn't mean you were in love with them all along, just that you eventually fell in love.

I don't really believe in love at first sight but at the same time I do. . .

I think that you can be attracted to someone right off the bat, personality, looks, everything, even with out really knowing them. And that once you get to know them for who they are you can love that person. So in a weird way you have always loved that person and just didn't know it. Thats why I kind of ride the fence on this. Because I believe you can't love someone until you know them, but sometimes with that person you meet and feel like that with you oddly do feel like you know them. I think it is more of a realization of a love you had all along even before you knew them. I don't think that you just one day wake up and fall in love, I feel like you just realize what has always been there.

Also the other thing that makes this weird for me is that I love my friend and in a weird way I would "fall in love at first sight" with them, but not in the romantic way just in the I love this person for who they are and what I do know about them, so in that sense their is a "love" at first sight.

No way in hell do I believe in love... Awesome question by the way...

Hey Homer,
Can I just say that you actually do ask pretty awesome questions and I was reading your profile, laughed when it said player till I die and was even more amused because you look like some guy called David DeAngelo who is a dating guru who helps guys become chick magnets. LoL

With that said I'm going to answer your question now =) Love at first sight. Well it kind of sounds like Hollywood chick flickish. I do think that you can be instantly attracted to someone. N that attraction can either be created by how they look and more importantly how they act.

Even if some ordinary guy comes along and starts talking to you, makes you laugh and makes you feel good about yourself as a chick, you will generally be attracted or at least intrigued by him. This feeling of attraction can be quite intense actually, including your heart rate going up, butterflies in your stomach and may be the one and only situation where a girl can become speechless.

So I think that instant attraction on both behalfs can occur, but then I believe that both people need to have substance so that they can grow that relationship. Many times people can be instantly attracted to each other and have it fizzle out because they really have nothing in common except their initial attraction.

So what my point of view? Well there really can't be love at first sight, more so attraction at first sight and then from there you can start thinking about developing something deeper.

Hope this answers the questions .. and if it didn't .. well I feel better about it neways *winks*

Hot Alpha Female

Yeah when I was in the third grade I had a crush on this kid like the second I saw him. And now I'm in 11th grade and I still love him!

I didn't,'till I actually experienced it. You see the kind of love in moves when one sees the other and he/she gets stoned,and in the end he/she lets him/her go because he/she wants him/her to be happy and alright even if they are not together,and the message of the movie is this: Love is not Jealous,it caring and giving.it's painful and unfair but it's the most true feeling existing.it's not logic but it's beautiful. That happened to me and I believe it now because I felt all that.

I do believe in love at first sight because I've experienced it !!! and that's my first love and 2 yrs on from are split I still love him he was my first love ill never forget it!! love at first sight was a great thing for me but it hurt really bad after a yr when it ended!! but since then I've had no love at first sight and I don't think I ever will again!! it is possible love at first sight we both had it just things with friends ruined what we had! I don't believe everyone experiences it but some definitely do!!

Lol. I always thought that was a funny saying. No I don't believe it at all. you can't be in love with somebody by just looking at them or spending a few moments. Love is mistaken for lust, infatuation, a very strong like when you see someone for the first time or when you really like there personality. it may feel like love but its not. Love takes time. its not based on the physical at all.

I know you responded to my answer on another page but I just read your page for the first time and saw a question that I remembered answering, so I found my answer and discovered that you had commented on my answer. I just decided to go ahead and leave it here also. And I changed it considering your not that PYT from the other page.


Love is more complicated than just to believe you can have it upon sight.
I do believe there are some amazing look females in the world, and judging from your site, my point should be proven, but to say LOVE at first sight with anyone, is impossible.

Love is an understood commitment. So to commit your self when you first meet them without ever knowing them, personality wise, is clear foolish to believe.

I can see how a guy would not want to lose a very pretty girl and that is showing commitment, but love goes past a pretty face. Its understanding the negatives as well as the positives, and sticking by that person through good or bad.


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man

I thought it was absolute crap until it happened to myself. I met this girl in Austria (also English) on a holiday and we met up over again during the holiday even being several miles from each other. Found out she didn't live too far from me. Ever since, I've not been able to take my mind off her. Ever since the moment we put both eyes on eyes at the same time. She feels exactly the same way.
We've tried a couple of times going out, but we were a bit young at the time and we want to try it again soon. It will most definitely happen. :)

Love is always present... people who fall in love fall out of love... those are for selfish people. People who know how to love already go into a relationship in love its just a different degree...once you start to know and become closer with that person your love for each other grows. And even if your not even in a relationship with that person anymore you still love them. It's true love that people try to build to that's the highest degree.I believe in love at first sight...happens all the time.