Ever since I've been going out with my girlfriend (coming up to 8 months now), she's always been so paranoid about our relationship. I thought I would let it go for a while and see if she gets over it, but then half way through our relationship, she sends her friends in to spy on my myspace (which I rarely use) for any comments and chat-ups by other women. That's as well as herself doing it when she can. She hasn't had the internet in ages and I haven't been bothered by all the spying for a while now, but just today I let my her go on my computer for myspace and whatever as she does, and when she leaves, she starts asking me questions about these people who have tried talking to me. I ask her why she's been on my comments. And she says it was on my profile and she could just see them. But that's not true. I've made them hidden and the only way to see them was by changing the website link. So it proves she's not over her habits. I got quite upset by the fact she had to look at my comments still.
What do you think about this? What would you do if this was your girl/boyfriend?
I've already spoken to her loads about the only privacy and paranoia thing.
It seems like you are acting like you are hiding something from her. Just tell her that you wish she wasn't so paranoid because she is your one & only (if that is the case).
I've got nothing to hide, and if I did, I wouldn't be stupid enough to put it publicly and in easy reach. She would be my one and only if she wasn't like this. Sorry to say that. - 7 months ago
It could be that she's so insecure that no amount of calm, rational words will reassure her. You said that it's been happening from the start of the relationship. If that's the case, prepare yourself to deal with accusations of infidelity forever. If she ever finds something that she considers proof, there will be hell to pay.
Infidelity forever. That's what I'm worried about. It's caused a lot of hassle in the past, and I'm not willing to carry on with it. Your absolutely right. - 7 months ago
You should talk to her about it, or at least demonstrate to her that you aren't using the Myspace site to meet girls. If you would be totally open with her about the site, she should stop being paranoid about it.
It's all down to the fact that she's doing it to see if there are other girls talking to me. If it wasn't just for that, I wouldn't mind her checking it out. It's just she doesn't trust me. - 7 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Go out to get something to eat, somewhere not to loud, but not to boring, so I can actually get to know the person through conversation, get to know : their interests, hobbies, intentions, what do they look for in a girl. then maybe after, when its getting later, walk through the park, or swing on swings at the park or something. & talk about anything .and id wear, nice jeans,shirt, and shoes
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date will know, that I'm smart, and that I'm hilarious. He will know I'm the same same as some other girls, and I won't do anything to impress him and that I like to smile(: & be myself completely, he will know my hobbies, what I like in a guy, and interests,etc.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 7 months ago
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