Ive being talking to this guy for about a month now. We are physically attracted to each other. He tells me he's crazy about me but he doesn't want a relationship right now. I asked him why and he said he didn't want a relationship now because last year he was in many relationships and he wants a break. I then told him we should just be friends and he didn't just want to be my friend. He tells me he wants to hangout with me more and get to know me more. I don't know what to do. Should I wait and see if a relationship develops or should I just forget him?
if you want to be with him, hang out with him and wait for the right oppurtunity to ask him out. if you are kinda "meh" about the whole thing, just forget about it.
if you are thinking about him right now, he obviously means something to you, and you should pursure it ;)
he says he doesn't want a relationship yet he wants to hang out more and get to know you more.try it and see what happens but it might sound like he's confused and doesn't want anything serious right now.also you said " we are physically attracted to each other" if your attraction is based purely on the physicality then you don't have much foundation.having common interests and goals will keep you two interested.
I'm in the same boat as you and I think its because he wants a chance to be single before getting tied in again. This guy I'm seeing was in 6 year relationship and then a 2 year relationship and I get the feeling that he likes me and would like something to go somewhere... someday but he wants to have his freedom because well, he probably never really had it.
I totally understand where he's coming from when he says that he doesn't want a relationship now... I think it's kind of respectful of him to be able to tell you that as opposed to just jumping into something with you. Everyone needs to be single for a while if all they've been doing is dating. It's refreshing and helps you gain perspective on what you want and who you want in the future.
I think if you really like him, you could stay friends with him, not to hope that a relationship with him will form, but because you enjoy being with him. I know that it's difficult to control your feelings for him, but just understand that if you two are friends, you really can't push a relationship if he's not ready. If that were the case, it probably wouldn't work out, honestly. Besides, if you were to push him away, there's always that regret of a friendship lost because your feelings got in the way.
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