now on monday morning my boyfriends grandfather was taken to the hospital for some or other reason, and as far as I know he is still there...now obviously I understand that he is worried and stressed out about his grandpa in hospital and it's not a very good time at home since everyone there is worried about him but he has been acting very weird since monday. here's what happened
the Tuesday he came over the whole day to visit and it was school the next day, so now he's very worried about how the people are going to treat him at school now since he failed a year and now that his grandpa is in hospital now he's worried about that too, and a few months ago his niece was killed and his mom is dying, so things are really bad for him, but ever since tuesday he's been really down and when he was visiting he was happy but I could still see he was bothered so I was guessing it was the stress of everything happening now, but now when we talk on the phone, we talk on mxit, I don't know if you know about that but its a chat thingy where you can talk for les money to any of your friends etc, so anyway, I was talking to hima nd usually when we say hello we say "hey love" and he would reply the same way but now I say hey love and he's just like "hi".
and we always play with each other when we say I love you then one of us say I love you more and we would carry on liek that, so the one time he told me he loves me and I said I love him more and he's just like.."jip" so I said " what are you giving in now?" and he's just like.. "ja." so I duno if he doesn't love me anymore or whats going on, I'm worried and I usually worry about everything but since I do love him I don't know what to do because I'm so confused. and yesterday he came to visit and he was so happy to see me, but as soon as we talk on mxit he's depressed etc
Well it sounds like you know whats wrong with him. He'll be back to normal once everything cools off. Now is not the time to worry whether or not he loves you. Trust me he loves you. You just need to be that part of a girlfriend, that's supportive like a great friend right now. Thats what he NEEDS. At a time like this you have to try not to want great return.
I could say that there is something to him not writing "Hi Love", but that would just be me jumping to conclusions. If he didn't want to talk, he wouldn't have got on.
Remain that great girlfriend and it will play out the way you want it to...you'll get that great return. Remember that ALL relationships have hard times and this just happens to be one!
Thank you very much, I am just really worried coz I wanna help him so bad but I just don't know how and I keep thinking that mayb he doesn't love me anymore and he hates me or something, even though I haven't done anything wrong but yeah,. - 10 months ago
Your man is just depressed. it doesn't have anything to do with you, personally (although it also affects you). give your man some space. when he is ready to talk, he will talk. let him know that you are there for him, but don't push him. - 10 months ago
What Girls Said
There are no answers from girls yet. Answers are getting posted all the time so check back soon...or submit your own answer above!
asked 3 days ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
