Can emotions and sex go together?

no.

I love my boyfriend, and when we have sex it not only bring us together physically but emotionally. We've talked about this before and he feels the same way. However before I never felt sex was an emotional thing, it was strictly about pleasure.

I understand how you feel. If sex and emotion go together for me I feel sick to my stomach when I'm going to see the person :S
sounds like you are afraid to fall in "love" and I don't blame you.
Im more emotionally stable, when I'm single.

to me if you sleep with the girl you get emotional with ,it will bring you two closer,are you afraid of a weakness when it comes to the girl you're sleeping with, I mean really do not want to be that vulnerable,ive never gone through something like this but I've thought about it ,it would just make me seem like I'm going crazy for one I get it if you're not that close with the girl you're sleeping with

From a personal experience, I am in the position of the girl you're sleeping with, the only difference is that I love him.He has a girlfriend, whom he loves but he comes to me for sex. I am in love with him.I've never been just sex kind of person, but if this is my only chance to be with him, I can't let it go although I hate myself for it. so plz be careful around ppl's feelings, the two girls you're with. you can't imagine how hard it is to be in my shoes. to wish that he looks into my eyes not just my breasts..it happens to a few people , you're not alone but what I think is that when you find sm1 you truly love and cherish, you wudnt wana sleep with any1 else..be careful with the girls' feelings..

Dear Not so bad,
I used to always feel detached emotionally from men I was having sex with until I meet my husband...It was as if everything was perfect...we have the most intense emotional mind blowing sex ever...so, I think that you are detached and need to somehow merge the two with one woman

It depends on the person. I have had both sex with someone I had deep emotions and I've had sex just to have sex. I find the best combination is sex with the person I love. It's fireworks when that happens.

You're not screwed up silly. Maybe you're just nervous about the commitment because to rely both physical and emotional needs on one person is a big step. I find that if I'm hurt by something, I don't really want sex, I just want support. But when emotions, like plain and simple love for the person, come into play I find that the sex was the most amazing thing I've experienced in a long time lol. So I definitely believe that sex comes into the equation. I hope my answer can help. =]

I think sometimes, people just don't want to mix the two because they're such polar strengths. Sex and emotion together are a really big deal, and it makes it so much easier to get hurt. It's pretty much just a phase. I think most people have to go through it before they get tired of separating them.

No offense, but I think you are kind of messed up. For a relationship to be healthy you need to have an emotional connection as well as a sexual connection. Divorcing the two causes problems. Sure you can get sex with no emotional strings attached or complications, but that is not a good thing for a stable long-term relationship.