My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and I love him so much. In the beginning our connection was amazing we were always together and always telling each other we love each other. Well about a month ago he moved away 600 miles away and we don't talk to each other more than 20 mins a day. And that's because he doesn't want to, he's either playing madden with his roomate or just too busy. He told me to move in with him but I couldnt.. I miss him more than anything but it doesn't seem like he does. it seems like he can never make time for me. he still says he loves me but I just don't feel like he does. last week I found out I was pregnant and this week I had a miscarriage and I've been feeling alone and sad, I try to talk to him about it and he wants to pretend it never happened. I gave up all my friends for him and now I have no one to talk to about how I'm feeling. how can I make him care again? is he cheating on me because he's so far away he can get away with it? I don't know what to do... I just want to do something that will stop him from cutting me off every time I call or text and I want him to want to talk to me.
OK YOU CAN JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHATS GOING ON WITHOUT PRESSURING HIM. FIRST OFF PLAN A DATE WITH HIM ON THE WEEKEND, LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU REALLY WANT TO SEE HIM AND THAT YOU MISS HIM. DISTANCE IS ALWAYS A HARD THING TO DEAL WITH IN A RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN GO UP THERE (U SHOULD SO You CAN SEE IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU DEPENDING ON HIS ANSWER) OR IF HE SUGGESTS RIGHT AWAY TO COME SEE YOU THEN SOMETHING MAY BE WRONG). THE BIGGEST PROBLEM THAT YOU HAVE IS THAT YOU GAVE UP EVERYTHING FOR THIS ONE GUY, YES You MAY LOVE HIM BUT You SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO GIVE UP ANYTHING FOR ANYONE, BECAUSE LOOK HE IS ALWAYS PUTTING HIS FRIENDS BEFORE You AND THATS NOT FAIR AT ALL. TRY TO GET IN CONTACT WITH YOUR OLD FRIENDS AND EXPLAIN TO THEM THAT YOU JUST GOT CAUGHT UP ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND LOST SIGHT OF REALITY AND YOUR FRIENDS. HOPEFULLY IF THEY ARE REAL FRIENDS THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. LET YOUR Boyfriend KNOW THAT HE HAS HIS FRIENDS THERE WITH HIM ALL THE TIME THAT THE LEAST HE CAN DO IS MAKE TIME FOR YOU SINCE You ARE SO FAR AWAY. IF HE SAYS SOMETHING NEGATIVE ABOUT THAT THEN GIRL I AM SORRY TO BREAK IT TO YOU, BUT MAYBE HE JUST ISN'T AS INTO YOU AS YOU THOUGHT. YOU CAN ALSO TRY NOT TALKING TO HIM AS OFTEN, MAKE HIM MISS U! TEXT HIM FROM TIME TO TIME TO SAY HI AND THAT YOU'RE THINKING OF HIM AND THATS IT, LET HIM TELL You THAT HE LOVES You FIRST. SEE HOW HE REACTS TO NOT HAVING You AROUND AS MUCH AS IT IS THE DISTANCE SUCKS. HE MAY BE CHEATING ON YOU AND GETTING AWAY WITH IT SO YOU CAN ALSO JUST SHOW UP AT HIS PLACE OUT THERE AND SURPRISE HIM WITH A PICNIC LUNCH ON A SATURDAY OR SOMETHING! IF ALL ELSE FAILS GIRL YOU MUST ALWAYS HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE, NEVER LET A MAN BECOME YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. BECAUSE MEN COME AND GO BUT YOUR OWN INDIVIDUALITY SHOULD ALWAYS STAY WITH YOU. EVENTUALLY You MAY FIND THAT A MAN WILL ALWAYS ACCEPT YOU THE WAY YOU MET HIM. IF You CHANGE THAT DRASTICALLY FOR A MAN THEN THATS A BAD START ALREADY AND THEN IT MAY LEAVE You EMPTY IN THE END. TRY LETTING HIM KNOW THAT YOU NEED TO SEE HIM, PLAN A ROMANTIC WEEKEND GET AWAY! TRY SOMETHING NEW, MAYBE HE NEEDS A LIL CHANGE IN PACE IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO KEEP THINGS INTERESTING. REMIND HIM OF WHY HE FELL IN LOVE WITH You IN THE FIRST PLACE. K, LET ME KNOW HOW IT WORKS OUT.
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