Dated my ex for a long time. He is seeing a new girl only a month. He said he doesn't know what it is right now, when I asked him if he loved her. He says he misses me and my friendship. only the friendship that he does not see us working it out.
Yet, when I told him I did not want to be friends only, he was not OK with it. He said he loves our friendship. I said today I will be his friend. We email all day, and he text. Until the evening when he is with her. Now, he is going out of town tomorrow and made a point to tell me he will not have email access.
Do you think he wants this friendship to see where it goes? Or is this guy just that stupid and think we can really be friends while he has a girlfriend?
Update: I was going to go to a certain bar and I just told him I was going.. He said good thing me and the girls name canceled.. How rude, that really hurt me.
7 months ago
Its kinda hard to be friends with some that dose this. I know I have the same thing going on right now but the girl is doing it to me. I could tell you what I think you should do but my friends tell me and I don't listen. I love her so much that in a way I am her friend but I'm a friend that has some deep feeling and can't stand the thought of her with someone else. so let me guess you want to be his friend but its killing you inside to not have him all to yourself. you want to walk away but you think that's what will loose him but if you stick around he will not miss you and maybe what you back. I say to myself at lest 3 time a week that I'm not going to contact her. then what do you know she contacts me. it like useless to stay away when they call you and it really confuses you. I know trust me. I wish I had a better answer for you but Im having a hard time figuring out what will get her back. be there for her or totally cut them off till they make up there mind. if you go one way and it don't work out then you will regret not going about it the other way. if I figure it out I will tell you and if you figure it out please tell me. is it so confusing.
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