should I be with the business guy who gives me everything that I ever want and need and who truly loves me? or should I be with my ex who has a girlfriend..says he wants to be with me..who makes his money the only way he knows how...im so confused because I love both of these guys!
That's a no-brainer. Be with the "business guy", but only if you are truly in love with him. Don't set him up for any kind of heartache. If you do go with the "business guy", don't drag the baggage of your ex along with you. Extinguish all old flames, cause they keep trying to burn again. Sounds like the "business guy" treats you right, is responsible, and that you could have a good life together.
choose the business man...it will be the right solution for the long term plus he will be able to love and help support you not to mention that your ex was in jail and has a girlfriend which shows that he doesn't value the relationship since he is in one and talking to you while I'm sure he is professing his love to you...let her have him and she can deal with the heartache when he cheats on her...you deserve better
Only you know the answer! But if I were you, I will be with the business guy. The reasoning not to be with the ex is because he has girlfriend now although he said he wants to be with you, I would not fall for that. Let him prove to you that he meant what he says and let him prove to you that he really want to be with you. Can he be loyal? What caused the break-up?
I understand what ur sayin...i broke up wit him because he ended up going to jail..and I have had this happen in the past wit my first boyfriend..and I didn't want to put up wit it again..he I'm not gonna lie to you he does have his "thug" ways but on all honestly he is sooo respectful and so caring...and when we was together before he never showed me anything to be worried about..the guy I'm wit now is 13 years older then me..im only 20...i don't no that's y I'm soo confused.. - 9 months ago
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Don't put age as an obstacle at this point, I mean if you love the guy, you love the guy and you'll kow. It seems to me that you love your ex more than you like this business guy. Are you on the rebound? If you're serious about this rel. (might have a future with one of them) you've to think hard what's best for you. I mean, if you're with your ex, can he support you with his job now? will he go back to jail? will he be there for you? will he be loyal, can be trusted etc? - 9 months ago
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I always heard it is better to be with a man who loves you more than you love him. In a way, that might not be the fairest thing in the world for that man, but I would rather be with someone who truly loved me than someone who just "says" he wants to be with me.
I don't know... I'm a guy and that's the first time I've ever heard that one before. Would you ever be with a guy that loved you more than you loved him, because I find myself in the same predicament with a girl who's true heart belongs to someone she's no longer with, but I can't help but feel the way I do about her. Could something like that really work, where she'd end up being with me solely because I love her, but not because she loves me?? - 9 months ago
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Well you should still love him of course, but he should be completely devoted to you. It doesn't sound too good, because you should be completely devoted to him too. I think it's an old wives thing because that's something my Grandma would say. They probably don't tell the boys this though ;)
I would be with a guy who loved me more because I know he wouldn't hurt me. I would never hurt him either. But how do you measure love? If you love someone then you just love them right? - 9 months ago
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