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It takes two to argue....I only recommend this approach if you're very confident with what you're doing. It took me about a year to realize this one, and now, this is what I do if a girl starts to argue with me....as soon as she gets into argument mode, I tell her..."looks like you're having a bad day. Maybe is best if I leave you alone. Let me know when you have relaxed and want to talk..." I then walk away, and yea, of course they are pissed and they probably want to argue more, but I just simply ignore them. Even I have been shocked at the results.
Of course, I have also done the approach mentioned by the females of telling her you want to things make better, but honestly, that never worked. I would apologize a few times, and if anything, that made it only worst. Somehow females see you as a weakling if you do that, specially in the middle of an argument. As I have posted before, shockingly enough, when I had an argument, I finally learned to just walk away and ignore the female; they were the ones coming to me later to apologize. This is what I do now, and it works wonders for me.
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