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Relationship down the drain

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sniperwolf2007 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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Me and my girlfriend argue a lot can someone plz tell me how to make all of this pain and arguing go away some one plz help me I love her and I don't want to lose her plz

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xxBlonde-Barbiexx (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Sit her down and tell her you love her and you can't stand arguing.. then maybe make her dinner or something with candles... good luck ;)
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ydoom619
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ydoom619 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I think you just have to let it go. Whatever you're arguing about isn't worth losing the relationship. Let her get it all out, let her yell and you keep you mouth shut the whole time. Once she is finished tell her how much you care about her and you want this to work, but if the arguments cannot be kept to minimum it will never work. You have to be firm about it, but don't give in to her and keep telling her what she wants to hear be honest. If she continues tell her that you think she needs her time to think and sleep it off and that you will call her in the morning. I agree more with sexwiseman's comment below. But you shouldn't act arrogant towards her just be firm.
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Lesae
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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Just stop the madness and tell her you want to make things better between you to and just stop. The ball is in your court and you have to make the change. Suggest a date night where you go to dinner and talk about the issues. But, only talk about them that night. Get it all out on one night. Then kiss and make up.
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ZZTopChic (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I would say that you should have a talk, tell her that you love her and you're sorry. Then you can figure out why you argue and together talk about ways to make it better.
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
It takes two to argue....I only recommend this approach if you're very confident with what you're doing. It took me about a year to realize this one, and now, this is what I do if a girl starts to argue with me....as soon as she gets into argument mode, I tell her..."looks like you're having a bad day. Maybe is best if I leave you alone. Let me know when you have relaxed and want to talk..." I then walk away, and yea, of course they are pissed and they probably want to argue more, but I just simply ignore them. Even I have been shocked at the results.

Of course, I have also done the approach mentioned by the females of telling her you want to things make better, but honestly, that never worked. I would apologize a few times, and if anything, that made it only worst. Somehow females see you as a weakling if you do that, specially in the middle of an argument. As I have posted before, shockingly enough, when I had an argument, I finally learned to just walk away and ignore the female; they were the ones coming to me later to apologize. This is what I do now, and it works wonders for me.
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