My ex-girlfriend, she dumped me, wants to get back with me but I'm unsure about what to do.

this is comming from a 28 year old woman. If she has slept with a guy other that you once, she will do it again. be honest with yourself: if you are not bothered by her causual sex, give her a second chance. If yes, better forget her sooner than later that you are hurt more

I think you should follow your heart.. worst that will happen is you may get stung a bit.. but in the end you will know for sure.. whether you are over her or not. I know the heart v. brain thing is hard.. but in the end I've realized either you end up regretting or thinking of what if's or just not listening to peoples advice and doing what you feel anyway lolol... plus I think its possible you may be in for a surprise.. personally when I've taken someone back I realized "wow you really weren't that big a deal that I thought you were" or you notice you were sad for nothing because they aren't that great..lol do what your heart tells you .. in the end.. at least that will be settled once and for all.

well if you really care for her, then you are going to get back with her regaurdless of what I or any one else says. but she did have sex with another guy within a couple of months of being separated from you. but at least it wasn't with some random bar ass hole. it was a close friend that she cares about. but I don't think their friendship would evolve in to anything other than that "casual sex" out of lonliness or what ever reason. if it doesn't bother you than that is great, really. so many guys get so twisted over that kind of thing, but they have every right. so if you are able to look past that and not let it bother you, then maybe it would be best if the 2 of you got back together. but how you go about it is important. don't just run back to her and be so greatful and loving. she may see that as her advantage and she may not value you as much as she should . just be distant. make her earn your affection. don't be an ass hole but let her know that you don't need her and you can live with out her. but still treat her good. just be distant and aloof. at least until you know that she is serious this time. I don't know sh*t about relationships so my advice might be useless . but I hope I was able to help. best of luck :)

Yo, my man, ask yourself is the juice worth the squeeze? You gotta put up with a lot it sounds like, at first I would say RUN for the hills this girl is poison. You can do better, and better is worth it when you get there. Your heart is big, and feelings are deep, my no.1 advice is not about the relationship! Handle you business, take care of your school, your work, your future first, if she wants to hang out and you say no I gotta do stuff, she will respect you more because you respect yourself. Don't say well if I don't hang out and she goes out she might meet some guy, if she does that's how she is which is not good for you because you really care. She does not know what she wants a lot of girls don't. You have to be the man, don't wear your emotions on you shirt, keep your chin up, and be cool, then everyone will respect you more, two years from now you don't want to say wow that chick really messed me up and stressed my life out.

It sounds like she is messing you around, perhaps you should ask yourself 'Do I deserve someone whose behaviour is better than this'. The answer is probably 'Yes' and in which case reject her.