What makes a relationship go downhill?

A, is what keeps a relationship going. When you fight.. it means there are differences, there are no relationships in which people have never had arguments about stupid things. Even if its about what kind of fruit to get at a store.. fighting is needed with friendships, and especially relationships.

B. Trust issues laziness, stupidity, and being un-educated can be changed and if you know they are stupid to begin with.. I doubt you would be with them Also, trust can be gained over time.

C. Cheaters and players and those kind of people can be changed when they really love somebody. So if they cheat once.. it should be over. Relationships shouldn't have time to go downhill when that happens..

D. ATTITUDE change from sweet to jackass will happen come hell or high water. Because it's LIFE. And honestly.. that is a good thing. it means that your boyfriend or girlfriend or more comfortable with who they are around you.

E is what I think will end a relationship because when you talk a lot in the beginning then barely talk at all.. it means your relationship has come to its end simply because when people don't communicate ( just like friends ) you cannot stay in that relationship. It means the other person is getting bored and doesn't have the need to talk to you.

I think that all of them can be worked through except the cheaters, players, and users. I think slobs can change or even be lovable, but if someone cheats, it automatically causes a break in the relationship - whether temporary or permanent. I also think that arguments and attitudes can be overlooked or gotten over and that communication can increase, but I think it's really hard to remedy a broken heart. So, I think that whatever breaks a person's heart is something that could really destroy a relationship.

To me the thing that makes a relationship go down hill is trust, or lack there of. Without trust you have nothing in a relationship. If you can't trust the person your with, then you have nothing in the relationship

I voted for "C", with "B" & "E" running a close second! and third. All three will destroy a relationship!

Jealousy issues.

Lack of comunication will kill a relationship faster than anything.

My best friend always says everything can be fixed so... I think it applies on relationships as well. So, I didn't really vote for either because in some way or another you can work on those issues, even improve the way you guys communicate (D). Maybe lack of understanding and not willing to compromise will make it really go downhill. But even that can be something you can work on. I just think relationships like everything else in life require constant work, it won't go on by itself.

Negativity and insecurity is a big relationship breaker.